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Old 10th October 2005, 7:28 PM   #1
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Hello,I may be able to offer advices for people who are in trouble of losing their wife.

1.Talk to her a lot of times.That will make her feel that you're concerned about her.
2.If you have kids and they're always wanting to play and annoy you and stuff and your wife does all the jobs and she busy with all her cooking,cleaning and stuff.You should take care of the kids for once.
3.If you're in the mood,kiss her so she think she's special.
4.Plan a surprise dinner party for her invite her friends and maybe your friends,if the party goes good then your wife will respect you and such and such.If it has gone horribly wrong then I don't know what the hell you're gonna do.
5.If it's her birthday ask her the month before her birthday "What do you like best?".If you get the idea to buy something,buy it!No matter how expensive it will save your marrige!

Well that's all it,I'll be send more of these advices though.
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Old 10th October 2005, 7:31 PM   #2
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Old 10th October 2005, 9:49 PM   #3
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Thanks for the advices!!!
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Old 10th October 2005, 10:01 PM   #4
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I'd like to add a few things:

1. REALLY listen to her when she is talking to you. Don't tune her out even if she is nagging- have some balls and fight back, but never ignore her.

2. If you have kids, get her a beauty day or something that spoils and relaxes her- IT WILL BE WORTH EVERY PENNY. Get it for her even if you don't have kids!

3. Do NOT let her constantly boss you around, make all of the decisions, and control you- she may think that is what she wants, but trust me, it backfires because she will eventually see you as a wimpy loser.

4. Take time to let her know you appreciate all that she does for you.

5. Don't get lap dances at strip clubs (unless she is 100% ok with it)
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Old 11th October 2005, 7:52 PM   #5
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Nota bene-The same things you did to get a woman, are the same things you must do to keep a woman. If you do something once, it does not last forever. I know some guys think that if they tell a woman she's beautiful once, buy her a surprise gift once, buy her roses once, tell her she's special once it is not good enough. It helps to be thoughtful that could be as simple as picking up a single rose or her favorite food without having to be asked to do so. Many women think a man should know what women want and think it's less romantic to ask. Husbands in trouble should learn something called sexless affection, and should take time out to listen to her without trying to solve all her problems.

That was my 2 cents. I hope I helped.
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Old 11th October 2005, 8:22 PM   #6
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More advice...

6.Vacation,this word means everything to a woman.Travel to a destination where you can relax and enjoy yourself.Have kids?No problem!Ask your mom to take care of them!

7.Sex,when you are in the mood for it.Ask her if she is.If she is do it.If she's not just talk dirty.That might work to get in the mood.

8.Kids,these lil'devils will drive you and your wife crazy!What would help them to be quiet?Go to a family fun centre that everyone can enjoy!When your kids grow up they'll listen to you,so that's no problem.

9.Are you addicted to pornography?Well stop looking at it!If it's that addictive why don't you do it with your wife?If that doesn't work,your marrige is 50% more chances of being divorced!

10.A good husband is someone who can depend on.If you do all the work and such and such.You'll get a "prize".

Stay tuned more advices coming up!
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