[leeroy1985]

Hi everyone, you may of seen my thread saying thanks for past advise and that things are going ok but now she seems to have found some new little game and i hate it.

We went to this party on saturday and her best friend was coming aswell. Ive never seen her and her best friend together because, strangely, her best friend doesnt like me (she has no reason not to either) i met my girlfriend, she said hi and gave me a kiss. Her best friend turns up and she jumps on her like shes not seen her for years (they go to college together everyday!) anyone would think they were lesbians the way they were with each other and shes like really funny with me infront of her so i went off into games room at the pub where the party was with my mates and we hardly spoke all night.

Next morning she has a go at me because i didnt talk to her all night and im like WTF she wouldnt talk to me so i went off with my mates! Am i in the wrong here or is she?

Also today she asked me if i would drop her off at college on my dinner break... i said i would then were driving towards the college and she sees her ex and shes like "OOooOO look so-on-so is there!" (she knows i hate him because he was a knob head to her) whats that about? why did she make a point to tell me her ex was there when she know i hate him? Is it me being paranoid or is it some sort of sign or game shes playing? After that we argued and i just said "piss off, i need to go to work and i dont need this ****" so she went, nearly knocking the car door off the hinges as she did so.

I love her so much and i dont want to leave her but i cant take this anymore. She always seems to find some way of winding me up or pissing me off i know i can be a bit touchy but she seems to think shes never wrong and that makes me more angry. Bearing in mind shes only 17 and im 20 is it that im being a bit to serious and shes just trying to have a laugh all the time? Is she still a little childish? What should i do about all this? Any suggestions welcome except the try and talk to her option because she will just say its me being mourngy and too touchy (could she be right?)

Thanks in advance (sorry its a bit long!)

[leeroy1985]

Oh and one more thing.... i usually phone her at 5:30 when i finish work, should i still phone her tonight and just forget about it or wait until she phones me?

[slubberdegullion]

Originally Posted by leeroy1985

I love her so much and i dont want to leave her but i cant take this anymore.

You're contradicting yourself. You CAN, if you wish, tolerate this crap, but you can make the CHOICE not to. Sure, you don't want to leave her, and I don't blame you considering the history you have with her, but the fact remains that she's playing you like a two-bit fiddle.

Is she still a little childish?

A little? You bet. She's suffering from the widespread delusion that a quality guy will be manipulated by her, and her friend's, little games. She's wrong, of course, but she'll have to learn it on her own; telling her will be useless because she's already certain that she's right.

Move on, my friend. You don't need an adolescent manipulator in your life. It will get worse before it gets better, if it gets better.