[pinartgirl]

Remember my LD guy who just can’t seem to send me his pictures? Well I want them!!!

Yet I would like to learn and change my tactics, which obviously don’t work. If they won’t work for this guy, well at least I will learn something new.

I would like to make this some kind of fun/game with him… something that will intrigue him, make him curious and feel fun to do it, instead of feeling it like some kind of obligation.

Yet my head is unusually empty to see what and how to write in my initial message to him. And I must react quickly.

Btw. I already blow it with sending him my sexy pic this morning to cheer him up bc he was feeling sick and tense about his project. I could make it as an exchange, but like I said.. I blow it. So I need new tricks.

Please help me with suggestions.

Not so old gal

[Art_Critic]

How about finding a new guy .. You know one that is involved in the relationship.

If you are doing something like trying to get pictures of him and he isn't responding then there is a reason..It isn't shyness that you will be able to break with a trick.

[pinartgirl]

It should read "Teach me new tricks".. apologies for my bad English.. I type with too long nails and in spur of the moment

I just remembered… what about, don't laugh.. I'm panicking when Im out of ideas and the dead lien is today... and btw I'm a AD designer :

Liked it? add smilie (asking if he liked my sexy picture that I sent him this morning)
I bet you don’t dare to make such yourself!!!

That usually works for men doesn’t it? It worked once to him.. so maybe….

[pinartgirl]

Hi Art_Critic

Yea I know, I know.. I gave myself a dead line with this guy if the initial agreement blows off… which is that we will meet in two weeks.
He has lot of stuff to do in his life and I respect that.
We also talked if it happens that he won’t be able to come to me I will come to him (his idea). So if non of this happenes, I will look for another.

So until then… and wild sex that we’ll have, I would like to look at his pictures and make bubbles..

[Outcast]

I don't think you should be planning to have 'wild sex' with a perfect stranger who won't even send you his photo. Are you not aware that women can get in no end of trouble doing things like that?

How old are you? You sound like you need a mother or father to advise you because this isn't a wise choice at all.

[pinartgirl]

I was joking, because of Art-critic comment....

And I’ve seen many of my friend pictures, just not the recent ones.

I came here for advice on a specific question/dilemma… trying to learn some new things when I know my old one doesn’t work for me…. I’ve been told I’m way to nice and polite and sometimes too serious with men..... So this way I am looking to loosen up a bit.
I hoped I would hear from you here how to apply some humor or wittiness or something like that in to my question. Or just tell your experiences.

Well all I got so far is something I never asked for.