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Old 3rd October 2005, 8:17 AM   #1
Nikki79ua
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Mother-In-Law creating problem.

Hi. I am 26 year's married. We have completed one year of our wedding. I have the problem
with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. They are very open to my husband. My mothe-in-law
changes her blouse and saari without feeling that her son,daughter and daughter-in law ar
e present in the room. I am very furious at that time. My husband also don't care wheather
she is changing her clothes. It happens many time and I am not able to stop such kind of
think which makes me angry and I make quarrel with my husband.My husband also don't care m
y these feeling. Sometime I also noticed that my husband touches her breasts or hip or but
taks. My family life is not going well due to this. My mother-in-law , husband and sister-
in-law thinks that I amd not linking to live with then. But I respects my in-laws. Once
my husband told me before our marriage that "3 years ago, he and her sister suck her mothe
r's breast nipple for milk". I have a baby boy of5 months. When he was born, my husband sl
eptwith his father and sister in a single bed due to space problem and I was very tense th
ose days for this. I started quarreling with him from that time. All such kinds of things
are coming in my way. I think I have to go to the doctor. Although my husband is very cari
ng and helpful for me but I can't face such type of scenes. What should I do? I told my pr
oblem to my husband but he said that "I am narrow minded, he can do such kind of thing b'c
oz she is his mother"?
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Old 3rd October 2005, 4:18 PM   #2
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I don't know what country you are from, but here in the US, that's incestuous. Well, in MY mind, it's incest no matter WHERE one lives . . .
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Old 4th October 2005, 6:52 AM   #3
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What should I do?

I know there is no relationshp between my mother-in-law and my husband but their living manner disturb me.
My husband did not understand me. I am from India. I told my problem many time to my husband but he is not agree to compromise.
According to him this relationship is between a son and his mother and their is no problem in this. But I think if son is not yough then this relationship is wrong.
I will thankful to you if you will advice me what to do? I am helpless I do not want to talk to my parents regarding this and in this city, DELHI-India, I have no friends, B'coz I am from another state.
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