Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
Well when he went was a long time ago and he went with a friend who lied to him and said he was taking him out to dinner for his birthday..it was a really long time ago and I've put it behind me..He promised to call me first if he ever wants to go again and get permission and said he's sorry it hurt me and he loves me and didn't mean to..so it's all good. That post was a long time ago I don't know why it just now popped up.
your post wasn't that long ago...sept 25th or something like that.
But now that I have read it I must give my opinion...first of all unless you are his mother he does not NEED your permission. I understand that you don't like him going to strip clubs and getting lap dances and that is fine but this is something that he should not do out of respect for your wishes not because you GAVE him PERMISSION.
I have to disagree that its cheating because how serious are both of you in this relationship, any plans to get married anytime soon . If you see my point, he is an adult and has the right to do whatever he likes (within legal bounds) its not really a big deal, just guys going out for some fun.
I have to disagree that its cheating because how serious are both of you in this relationship, any plans to get married anytime soon . If you see my point, he is an adult and has the right to do whatever he likes (within legal bounds) its not really a big deal, just guys going out for some fun.
yea we'll be getting married as soon as he graduates college.
Ok well im gonna give you a point of view you probably haven't thought about! Strippers/pole dancers/lap dancers/erotic dancers aren't interested in your bf/husband. They're there to make money and do a job and THATS IT. Boundaries in a relationship about whats considered cheating and not should be made clear so no one oversteps the mark unintentionally. But trust me, the dancer was probably thinking about what she was gonna eat on her break...TRUST ME (i am one )
So you guys think that touching another woman's body is appropriate? How would you feel if your GF or wife touched a guy's penis and said it was merely a "girl's thing"?
strip clubs are no big deal. I actually go with my boyfriend. Its just a bunch of chicks giving your man blue balls. As long as you can trust your man, then you should nt worry.
To me, it is cheating. It is considered adultery to me because you are fantasizing about another woman besides your partner... I don't look at pornography or anything of the sort, and the only time I look at another female's physical appearance, is when I feel that they deserve a compliment on their natural beauty. The female body is a beautiful thing and is quite sacred to me.
So you guys think that touching another woman's body is appropriate? How would you feel if your GF or wife touched a guy's penis and said it was merely a "girl's thing"?
I dont know which strip clubs your familialr with but if any guy touched me, so much as brushed my aarm then he'd be thrown out the club and barred. As for touching a guy's penis jesus girl do you think we have live sex shows or a huge orgy? we just dance.
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. If you see my point, he is an adult and has the right to do whatever he likes (within legal bounds) its not really a big deal, just guys going out for some fun.
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