Recently my girlfriend of two years just broke up with me. We have broken up a few times before but it never lasted for more then a few days. The problem has been that I had a huge amount of stress in my life for about a year. I have never cheated on her, I am always honest and I absolutely love her. She has told me it is over and tells me that it is final but then she has said things that kind of contradict that. I know that my chances are very slim to win her back but it is very much worth it for me to try even thought it could hurt me even more. We are not that young and have known each other for more then three years. Please anybody who has any advise help me!! I will listen to any option. I LOVE HER DEARLY!!

Recently my girlfriend of two years just broke up with me. We have broken up a few times before but it never lasted for more then a few days. The problem has been that I had a huge amount of stress in my life for about a year. I have never cheated on her, I am always honest and I absolutely love her. She has told me it is over and tells me that it is final but then she has said things that kind of contradict that. I know that my chances are very slim to win her back but it is very much worth it for me to try even thought it could hurt me even more. We are not that young and have known each other for more then three years. Please anybody who has any advise help me!! I will listen to any option. I LOVE HER DEARLY!! You dont really say why you broke up this time? Is your girlfriend being 'over' affected by the stresses you mention in your own life...are they out of your control...are you being supported by her understanding if they are? It is wonderful to hear your character of honesty and faithfulness, she is very fortunate to have those two important things. Have you ever thought about praying? In regard to your many stresses at least, for peace of mind and innner strength to ride the waves of them? As for her contradictory statements, why dont you both go to a relationships counsellor to see if they can give you some helpful answers to your conflicts that may steer the relationship in a healthier direction, or at least give you individual education they will help in any future relationships you become involved in. Try to pursue some resolvement and closure in your other conflicts you mention, I feel this may be certainly not helping. No matter what the outcome, staying amicable in your conversation and giving each other respect is important. Give me some more detailed information and I will try to help you further...from bethbonnie, Australia.

I have suggested going to a counselor she will not go. We have struggled a lot because of the difficulties I have had to endure. During these problems I was not taking good care of our relationship. She says we have gone too far with the issues. Yes now there is a great deal of resolvement with my personal issues but she is worn out by the past. I have been actively finding ways to eliminate the issues and I have done a good job of it. Like I mentioned before I realize that things are very much in trouble with her and I but I still feel in my heart that it is worth trying to save this but I am not sure if she has any desire left. She has shown a few small signs that there is a slight chance but I might just be looking at things wrong. I do know she still cares for me and is scared that we will not be friends any more.

Craig, if you wish speak with me in a more private way

please leave your email address and I will respond.. Bethbonnie..

Bethbonnie here is my email address <e-mail address removed> Thanks. Craig