[JaneInVegas]

Up until two weeks ago I had lived with my boyfriend for almost a year. Something happened to make me suspect he'd been talking to his ex, and when I confronted him, he immediately admitted to talking to her a few minutes a week. I strongly suspected he was holding back the truth from me, so I went online and got into his cell phone records. Yeah, I know that wasn't the greatest thing to do to my boyfriend ... but it was a real eye opener. He'd been calling her every day non-stop since a month after I'd moved in with him. I confronted him with his cell bill invoices, and called him a liar to his face. He claimed they were just friends, nothing was going on, blah blah blah.

I got pretty irate, because he had made a lot of broken promises to me. I moved out because of those broken promises, and he's having a hard time forgiving me for snooping into his cell phone records. How else would I have found out the truth? He sure wasn't throwing any Truth out on the table for me.

I know I'm not totally in the right here ... but does anyone else think I'm at least partially justified in what I did?

[Art_Critic]

Snooping is a double edged sword..

You were wrong to snoop but in hindsight if hadn't he would've made a fool out of you.

It's better to find out about these things early like you did..

Sorry you had to go thru it.. But You are lucky that you are no longer with a bum that would disrespect you like that.