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My g/f and I are on a break after a year together - she needed the space and called it. She is great and I miss her dearly after a couple of weeks so far.
We're on NC, just a quick txt / AOL here and there. I'm having a tough time concentrating on work, etc, so I need a bit of "closure" It could be the end of the line, as the break is kind of forced after a couple of tough conversations lead to us discussing the break.
Anyways, I am thinking I need to know where she is at here - and am thinking a call to a friend of hers, who I know well and whose b/f I'm close with still, could be a good call. Or could backfire like it ain't no thing.....
The reason I think I need to is things were very good, and changed quickly. We've known each other for a long time and were friends before, and this was definately not a dating situation getting to know each other - we both made some commitments with actions - not words through the relationship. So for it to change so quickly is crazy - and I wonder if she is mad about something, for instance there were some things I have realized I might have done to affect the change before this happended.
Like it always is in these break / break up situations - it seems your damned if you do and damned if you don't - like if you don't call the girl but she is wondering why you haven't....
I really need to relax and get on with things - even though I would like to try to reconcile - I think it can happen but it won't if I continue to feel so badly and act so nervous.
Thoughts?
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