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Old 18th September 2005, 6:39 PM   #1
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He keeps him on my mind

Me and this guy broke up like 3 or 4 months ago. I am still completely in love with him and i try my hardest to get over him. It seems like everytime I am making progress he calls me or I see him out somewhere. Even if I dont talk to him when he calls(which im not going to lie, I do sometimes talk to him) I get all my feelings back and it kills me because then I have to start my progress all over. The last time we saw eachother we were at the bar and I was really drunk and we ended up making out. This was like a month ago. Since then I have been unable to get him off my mind. I am going crazy because I have been depressed and confused. I need some advice if anyone has any.
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Old 18th September 2005, 8:08 PM   #2
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I get all my feelings back and it kills me because then I have to start my progress all over.
The best way to end this, is to stop doing this to yourself. You will have to go to full 'no contact'. No contact with him at all, so that you can start getting your head and heart back together. No new contacts = No new hurts.
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