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Hey, this question is mostly geared towards the ladies, but all replies are welcome, So ladies.... what type of things can a guy do to make you just come up and start talking to him, Theres a girl I want to talk to, But I cant go talk to her, im not that big of a wuss, after she approaches me,i will be doin the other manly stuff like asking for a date, I dont have a prob with that usually, just initiating contact. SO what makes you decide to go talk to a guy, How about, When he's walking your way in the school hallway, he kinda gives you a smile or tries making eye contact, I dont know,so far that is my plan, next time I see her, any other advice? thanks in advance for all replies.
Good luck on getting her to make the first move. I'd still say most women are in still in the old days and expect the guy to come up to them first which is IMO gay. If a person has an interest in another person then they shoudl go up to them and tell them, guy or girl.
I'd love to find a girl who actually took initiative rather than sit back and wait but I know it'll never happen.
Women say they want to be equal yet when it comes to this aspect they are old fashioned...
It's really not that hard to get a girl to make the first move
Just like men, women are afraid of being rejected. If you make it obvious that you will say yes, she will take the bait if she's interested. I guess my question is, if you have a girl you like, why are you trying to get her to approach you? Is there a reason you can't ask her?
Ya, there is a reason i cant approach her, I have no idea how to without looking wierd, We've seen eachother almost everyday for 4 years, and if i went up out of the blue and talked to her, itwould seem really wierd, we have said a few words together,but i was so nervous that I backed out of the convo, Now, im not nervous with girls anymore, im actually really good, found some inner game,but i just cant approach her, I think its because ive never liekd a girl nearly as much as I liked her,oh well, she might think it would be akward to approach me too, its too bad, I might as well forget about it.
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