Was I Wrong

betterwife · 9th September 2005, 3:18 AM

When I seperated from my husband, I started dating my high school sweetheart. I eventually got pregnant by him but he seem like he wasn't ready, so I gotten a abortion (didn't really want to). Immediately after that I went back to my husband because I know he wouldn't do such thing. Then I left husband again to go back to my high school sweetheart. We were back on good terms and I really love him but I don't know why because he didn't want a child with me before. So again I am back with my husband due to that fact he hasn't done anything to me a plus I realize who is my true love and really love him for hanging in there for me. But was I wrong for leaving the High school sweetheart alone.

Please Reply ASAP

jhurtinct · 9th September 2005, 3:21 AM

No but don't leave husband again, not too many people wpuld be that patient and understanding. Your h seems to really love you pls don't ever leave him again and don't worry about the man who didn't stick by you.

ThatOneGuy · 9th September 2005, 3:25 AM

Yeah, Just be thankful he took you back after all those times.

betterwife · 9th September 2005, 3:28 AM

While I was gone he slept with escorts and two of his female clients. And he is still in touch with his clients but I'm not in touch with my high school sweetheart anymore. Plus the slept in the bed that i am sleeping in right now

jhurtinct · 9th September 2005, 3:32 AM

okay that puts it in a different light. Did you leave him originally?

1. if you did he only did what you were doing
if not then sorry

2. make him go buy a new bed

3. go to counseling together

4. put everything and all the wrong doings in the past or it will never work.

good luck to you

ThatOneGuy · 9th September 2005, 3:34 AM

"While I was gone" being the key words. I mean, You left him for another man, He is entitled to sleep around with Prostitutes if he wants. Im not saying its right, In fact I look down upon Prostitution. But he still had the right to.

Besides, If it's such a big deal, Why are you still with him?

betterwife · 9th September 2005, 3:36 AM

what about his clients that he screwed but still in touch

ThatOneGuy · 9th September 2005, 3:37 AM

Like I said, If it's a big deal then leave him.

elijahBailey · 9th September 2005, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by betterwife

what about his clients that he screwed but still in touch

you did leave him first. What does this do to his trust in you?