So back in the begining of July my ex had decided she wanted to "take a break" for a month. Month ended begining of August...we hung out a few times after that...in those few times she actually even told me she loved me. We were supposed to hang out last week and she cancelled on me. So she said this week....I talk to her today and she says that she cant' see me. She made a decision last night and that she was wrong in stringing me along and that she doesn't want to see me anymore.
I know......but she wanted to talk to me during this whole time...I had a feeling if I stopped talking to her then she wouldn't have talked to me after that. But I guess each would have ended in the same result.
I know......but she wanted to talk to me during this whole time...
She was using you to squelch her own guilt .. You allowed her to do it and now she has no more guilt so she is throwing you aside.
You help her get over breaking up with you.
If you had started NC right away she would've been forced to deal with her emotions by herself
so much for NC...she sent me a text asking what i was doing tonight...she knew a friend of mine is in town and was leaving tonight. I told her i was busy and she said she wanted to talk because she thought i deserved an explaination.
This would be the 4th time I've heard this since our breakup
I told her that I didn't need her explaination..that 3 was enough
I really need to hide my phone or break it or something
NC is easy until they start contacting you. IMHO that's the true test of your convictions, being able to say no to your ex when they contact you. I failed way too many times to count before I learned my lesson.
Block her numbers and her email. Block every single way you can think of that she can contact you. That should solve the 'hearing from her' problem, at least for the short term.
__________________ No man chooses evil because it is evil; he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks. --Mary Wollstonecraft
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