[megan1012]

Ive been emailing texting talking with this guy for almost a month now. we both started out not looking for anything but agreed we would give this thing a shot so we tried it. He goes to tell me he cares about me hes falling for me to I'm in love with you. Needless to say hes going Thur a really nasty divorce but I'm cool with that as Ive been Thur it. So anyhow Monday evening I was in a really bad mood and guess i sorta took it out on him. so I tried texting him and calling tons of time for Monday night all the way till late night. Leaving messages after messages and emails after emails and texts after texts still with no response. I finally get a text back yesterday saying please stop. ill call u later but Ur really freaking me out. so Of course i reply with a text and email saying I'm sorry and just really want to know whats going on. still no response i finally text him last night after no call and say can you come on-line in a few? he texts me back with ill call u in the am I'm out with my mom and I'm sorry for everything. well I'm still waiting on the call as its still early this am I'm hoping he will call. But my question is where do i go how do i handle this?? I'm so confused I mean its been 3 days with nothing basically. we went from 20 calls a day to aiming on-line for over 3 hrs a night and tons of emails everyday and tons of texts to this nothing...I mean how can you say you love someone and just stop everything???....any ideas????

[Art_Critic]

Relax a little maybe he had to go do something with his wife and family j/k

First of I would be wary about someone using the L word in such a short time.. He used it to try and sucker you because he thinks you are desperate and that's what you want to hear.

It takes more than Im'ing and text messages with phone calls to fall in love with someone.

Now infatuation is another thing.. This is most likely what it is.

I would back way off.. STOP calling him and texting him and let him come to you at this point.

and if you two begin contact again I would insist on a face to face relationship from now on.. It is the only way you can have a real relationship