[Jtizzle]

Just got into a long distance relationship..im in texas and hes n New Jersey..when we first met and started talking, we talked all the time, well not all the time, but enough to get to the point of liking each other,etc. he then asked me out and i was like ok we are both adults we can do this..Im n school now and i can go visit on breaks,etc or he could come out here. so were dating now..

and its like we dont talk as much as we used to..back when he liked me we'd stay up late and i mean late talkin..now its like i gotta beg for a phone call nowadays..i understand he gotta work, i understand he's tired, i get that..hell im in the same boat, im workin and goin to school and volunteerin time at old folks home, but yet i can still make some time in my busy schedule to call him..

why is it that when a dude loves a woman or so he doesnt go out of his way to show her, or give her the mininum as in a phone call, but when he "likes" her he's so sweet, nice, and want to talk all the time.!?!?!

if thats the case i think id rather be liked than loved

[Art_Critic]

guys aren't really like that.. Not unless we get married

Sounds like you it's your guy ..

[RecordProducer]

Originally posted by Art_Critic
guys aren't really like that.. Not unless we get married

Sounds like you it's your guy ..

I was going to say exactly the same thing. My BF would still rather bullsh*t with me than not talk at all. The contact matters, not the topic of conversation. I guess your guy is not that talkative. When he was talking to you at the beginning, he wanted to get to know you better and seduce you. Now his mission is accomplished and he is not trying so hard to impress you or know you better. Pretty superficial, if you ask me...

[AmberAriesMom]

Your's should be the voice he wants to hear before he goes to sleep at night! Period! So if he's not calling, he's not thinking about you enough. He doesn't deserve you.

[TnT]

IMO alot of guys are like that. They reach this comfort zone where they feel they have u and dont need to impress u anymore. Maybe he doesnt feel he needs to talk to u all the time for u to know he loves u and vise versa.

[StacyRose]

I don't know the answer. The exact same thing happened with my guy. I dont' know if it's a symptom of him loving you. I doubt it's a good sign. What I learned is whatever you do.. don't get angry. Just try to get him into the habit of talking to you more often without seeming too pushy. Don't stress..