Married and falling in love

Lisa

I am or have been happily married. I have known my husband for five years and we've been married for a year. He is nice and kind and does not treat me badly in anyway. THe only problem with our realtionship is that we like very different things, music, social activities, travel and in someways are out of sync, mentally, sexually. But that said, we have a good life and nothing is unbareable. I've meet another man. I was NOT looking to start a realtionship or meet anyone. He is also married. We share alot in common, we have similiar backgrounds, likes, life goals and desires. We both feel that we are a perfect match for the other in temperment and intellect. That does not mean that I think he is perfect, becuase he is not. I want to express that this realtionship is very realistic and built on real knowlegde of the other person, not fantasy feelings. We talked for three months on the phone and by e-mail, I've known him for almost two years and it was just in the last three months that things have changes in this way. Anyway, I belive that I am in love with him and have told him so. He feels the same but neither of us wants to hurt our spouses. What should we do?