Need some help....

I love her dearly, we love each other but have come to a cross roads ..she's feeling stuck in neutral, I'm not wanting to take the next steps...should we call it a day?

We've been dating 2 1/2 years, living together 6 months. We have issues that we never broach. Biggest problem from my point of view is that we dont compliment each other, I can't see a marriage working out....doomed to fail. We both need another that has more to bring to the relationship...I just don't think we could do the family thing together. This is the major stumbling block.

I have other concerns but probably shouldn't bring them into this.

How do I go about bringing this up??

[fatcat]

You tell that hag of a g/f to hit the pavement. And for you, what's the problem? You
answered your own pondering situation. If looking outside the box and seeing that
marriage won't work, what's the stumbling block? Sit her down and arrange how the
moving van will get her stuff out of the place.

[AltplanB]

First of all, how old are you two? is the clock really ticking? I feel that it would definately be best to talk to her, but not to just quit the whole thing. Just start out by saying how you would like to talk about how the future between you two looks. Then tell her your concerns and your feelings. Make sure she is in a good mood when it happens. If she understands that you want to take it slow, then power too ya. If she wants committment now, you gotta decide whether you two could make it work or whether you should cut your losses. Also realize that almost everyone ****in gets divorced these days and that it is by no means conrete anymore. good luck.