Uh, I ppst earlier about a girl that doesnt want to get into a realiationship right now and I totally respect that. I just dont want to blow it right now.
Im wondering how I should talk to her on msn/real life etc... cuz I dont want to blow it. I gave her a friendly invite to the movies. And its not like I dont know anything about her, I know alot. And I stumped about what to talk to.
Can you guys/gals give me something to talk to her about?
Just be yourself. Don't be to pushy or clingy, girls hate that. Just from time to time glance at her and give her a big smile. Try to spark an interest and find what you have in common.
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ok, but we've already talked about that. And stuff. We have a few things in common and she doesnt mind at all if I like something different and I too. We've talked abut sports, life, family, favorite things like music/pets/animals etc. I know I cant go to the next level in the relationship because shes not ready and I have no intensio into forcing her into it. I just want to stay at the highest level of our relationship beore we date. That sounded kinda weird but thats how I feel.
Other than talking do I want to bring her places, give her stuff, and etc and be extremly nice to her? I dunno.
IMO if she doesnt want it she doesnt want it. Cant make someone do something... U push her and she push you away! So just be kind to her talk to her as a FRIEND invite her to things your doing, if she goes, she goes, if not owell... Dont try and change her but yet let her see you for who you are and if its goin to happen it will!
As far as giving her things, well thats up to you and making a choice based on how well the RS is goin... I wouldnt do anything big tho if i were you... Just make it lil things...
Keep in mide to give her space bud, dont wanna smuther her ya know?
Ever heard of letting her miss you? I know you want to spend lots of time with her but you may get better results of you back off some and let her see that she misses you in her life. When you see her be friendly just like always and talk about things you are doing in your life. Let her think you are not sitting around waiting for her and it makes you more attractive to her. Touch base with her every week or so and see if you can spark some interest.
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