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Old 10th August 2005, 7:43 PM   #1
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do I return the call? part 2
Hi Again,

Well, I came home from work today to another message from the ex, this is her second in 3 days after NC for a month and a half. She wants to "see how I'm doing".......I'm a bit hesitant to call her back because I do not want a "just friends" thing with her nor do I want to hear about her new romantic endeavours if there are any. What should I do?

If you haven't seen my previous posts, we adted for 2.5 years and then she dumped me because I am busy and "did not put her on a pedistal".

This sucks, it keeps knocking me back to square one.
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Old 10th August 2005, 11:24 PM   #2
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Do you want her back? Don't get stuck in the friend zone...
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Old 10th August 2005, 11:47 PM   #3
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No don't return her call. Leave her in the past.
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Old 11th August 2005, 1:04 AM   #4
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Women who ask to be put on a pedestal don't deserve to be put there in the first place.
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Old 11th August 2005, 1:16 AM   #5
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She wants to "see how I'm doing".......

nah she wants to know whether you are still pining for her or not ( to make herself feel better! )

keep it up what you are doing!

good luck!

ps i hate the position you are in but even I got out of it so that means so can you!
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