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Old 9th August 2005, 8:01 PM   #1
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I feel the urge to cheat!!!!

I just can not sleep with the same girl for more than 5 times. I am always looking for my next target and trying to figure out a strategy to get into her pants. I know this is totally unfair to my GF, but my penis does not seem to care about my inner concious.

What should I do at this point??? I can't keep sleeping with different girls for the rest of my life.
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Old 9th August 2005, 8:08 PM   #2
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Break up with your girlfriend right now. She deserves somebody who can stay faithful and CONTROL his penis wanting to be inside other women's body parts.

Don't committ yourself to anybody until you are mature enough and ready to be in a loving and faithful relationship.
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Old 9th August 2005, 8:11 PM   #3
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I would sleep with as many as possible and never use a condom so you can get the full effect and bragging rights to the herpes or HIV you will get.
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Old 9th August 2005, 8:12 PM   #4
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Don't be so critical. I am mature and I am ready to commit to her. But I think most of men can seperate love and sex. I just can't seem to control my urge when i am with aother hot woman.
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Old 9th August 2005, 8:19 PM   #5
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Stop it, dump the girl friend and just sleep around if that is what you want. Don't hurt someone else because your penis controls you.

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Old 9th August 2005, 8:20 PM   #6
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Then you're selfish. Control your thoughts, control yourself around other women. What you're doing is not cool, unless you let your girlfriend know and she's OK with it.

Sorry, I don't think I'm being critical, just being honest and telling you what I think. Disreguard my advice then.
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Old 9th August 2005, 8:31 PM   #7
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Old 10th August 2005, 8:41 PM   #8
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What should I do at this point??? I can't keep sleeping with different girls for the rest of my life.


says who? if you're young, you're not in love, yet still feel the need for sex, by all means, as long as you're not hurting anyone physically or emotionally, you should be able to. but, if you're saying to women "i love you" or "no one else makes me feel like you do" just to get in their pants, then you gotta cut that crap out.

have confidence and just be upfront. i'm sure others will agree that if you tell a woman upfront you're just in it for the sex, she'll understand. Of course, you may have to ask a lot of women before you'll find one that'll agree, but, that's life.
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Old 10th August 2005, 11:19 PM   #9
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Don't be so critical. I am mature and I am ready to commit to her. But I think most of men can seperate love and sex. I just can't seem to control my urge when i am with aother hot woman.
If you were mature and ready to commit you wouldn't be cheating every chance you get. A mature committed person doesn't cheat. An immature jack*** does.
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Old 12th August 2005, 4:43 PM   #10
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You are so greedy! you have a GF already and you are still looking to get laid. What's wrong with you?

I don't have a girl now. All I have are my left hand and my right hand. You should be satisfied by have a real thing.
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Old 12th August 2005, 4:51 PM   #11
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Arrow Ahem!!!

Are you nuts?


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just can not sleep with the same girl for more than 5 times. I am always looking for my next target and trying to figure out a strategy to get into her pants. I know this is totally unfair to my GF, but my penis does not seem to care about my inner concious.

What should I do at this point??? I can't keep sleeping with different girls for the rest of my life.

Sure you can. Or at least until you look in the mirror and find out that you are getting old and fat and nobody wants you anymore. The problem doesn't lie in your penis; it lies in your psyche.


GET HELP! Or get AIDS. Women are not really walking semon receptacles for you to jerk off into. Just fyi
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Old 13th August 2005, 12:33 PM   #12
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What should I do at this point??? I can't keep sleeping with different girls for the rest of my life.


says who? if you're young, you're not in love, yet still feel the need for sex, by all means, as long as you're not hurting anyone physically or emotionally, you should be able to. but, if you're saying to women "i love you" or "no one else makes me feel like you do" just to get in their pants, then you gotta cut that crap out.

have confidence and just be upfront. i'm sure others will agree that if you tell a woman upfront you're just in it for the sex, she'll understand. Of course, you may have to ask a lot of women before you'll find one that'll agree, but, that's life.
I am probably the odd ball female here but I have to agree w/ johnny.

If you are young, aren't ready to settle down, then go for it. BUT let the girl you are having sex w/ know that you don't want anything serious, you are just in it for the sex. Give her the choice to either feel that way too or find some other guy who just doesn't want sex and wants a relationship.

And remember to ALWAYS use a protection. Getting to have sex w/ a bunch of girls isn't worth getting STD's
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Old 14th August 2005, 11:23 PM   #13
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nothing wrong with have lots of sex, as long as you are not cheating on anyone
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