[lostinmymind]

I'm having some really bad trouble with reminiscing on the past and replaying really memorable moments from my past relationship in my head. I start to think about sweet things she did for me or I for her or important times we spent together. It gets me really sad and there is no way for me to get out of it unless I just go to sleep.

Also, I'm afraid she doesn't understand what our relationship meant to me. She thinks I am depressed because I don't have someone, not just because I don't have her. This hurts the most out of everything. I keep wanting to set her straight and explain to her how much she meant, but no matter how I did this I know it would be pointless.

I need some advice on how to deal with the past and how to accept that good things happened, but that is over for the time being. I just don't know how to go about accepting this...

[sanne]

hey trust me we all end up thinking about the good times. it's amazing how quickly we forget about the bad times. the only hopeful advice i can give is that these good memories of yours will have less and less emotional impact on you as time goes on.

[ciara12step]

the memories will stick to your head like glue for awhile, what i did was take her stuff and put it in a box and hide it in the closet to keep it from eyes view, then i try to stay busy by talkin to as many people as possible, that is the key is to keep your mind occupied which is next to impossible, but at least u can keep tryin to talk to people, i must have drawn out my breakup story with over 30 people !