[caring guy]

After a time & space period & we are still talking & saying 'i love you', during this period of space she had a fling, dinner snog no sex!
I hurt her over time with being complacent & a little cold & things went stale, i was selfish & saw her on my terms, i know & am sorry for this, but never went behind her back!
She wants to believe i will alter my ways, but i aint got a time machine, Answers speak louder than words & thats what i told her!, But a chance is needed first, especially as this has been a wake up call!
How can i initially tell her, i've said i'm commited to her kids, be there for her, & want to now move in.
What more can i do!?
CG

[sburtug03]

You are being threatening and not the type of person she wants you to be: 'what more can I do?' You need to see her with flowers or a gift that tells her you know her, apologising for your behaviour in a calm, relaxed, discussing way. Whatever she says do not raise your voice / show anger. She will be testing you as you have reacted wrongly in the past. Make sure she realises that you don't want anything from this visit (we know you do but just play along with this idea) you are there to see if she is alright and nothing more. To really impress her, tell her not to give you any answers and leave before she can do, she will then believe that you had no alternate motive than to care for her well being (this she wants.) Get home and wait for the call! I hope it turns out, Luv Samantha x

[LucreziaBorgia]

She has moved on with another man. There is nothing left to prove.