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Old 31st July 2005, 11:10 AM   #1
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Whatever happened to asking a gal to dance?

I FINALLY went out last night with the Girls and went to the clubs, I am usually a good sport when a man asks me to dance. Last night I went on the dance floor with the ladies and I couldn't believe how rude 40% of the men are!!

They just come up behind you stick there friggen boner in your back and start dancing!! It's gross, Rude and uninvited. I was EXTREAMLY rude to every man who did this and can't believe how many of them actually did it.

I noticed that several ladies we're letting this happen even if they we're not comfortable with it... I wonder why. I think it's rude
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Old 31st July 2005, 12:16 PM   #2
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The mysteries of the dance floor. I think it depends a bit on the music you are dancing to, the establishment you are visiting, et cetera. It simply is not the place to expect impeccable manners, to say the least.

As for a rude behavior on your part, I am afraid that it did not have much effect. Sure, they stopped "dancing" with you, but they will simply have moved to less unwilling women.

What are you going to do about behavior that is so predominant there? Not much. The only thing you really can do, is to leave the place.
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Old 31st July 2005, 12:21 PM   #3
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Re: Whatever happened to asking a gal to dance?

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They just come up behind you stick there friggen boner in your back and start dancing!! It's gross, Rude and uninvited.
...this has more to do with the type of "establishments" you are frequenting.
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Old 31st July 2005, 12:28 PM   #4
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My sympathies, Stone. Last time I went to a club, half of the women were bending over and rubbing their backsides against men's crotches to stimulate doggy sex.

Exhibitionists are facing an increasing problem; everyone wants to be one, so the audience is dwindling rapidly.
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Old 31st July 2005, 12:30 PM   #5
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My sympathies, Stone. Last time I went to a club, half of the women were bending over and rubbing their backsides against men's crotches to stimulate doggy sex.
Enough said.
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Old 31st July 2005, 12:33 PM   #6
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Enough said.
Yes. That was a Freudian typo for sure
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Old 31st July 2005, 3:30 PM   #7
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Well I wonder why when you girls wear all that revealing clothing. If you look slutty they will treat you that way.
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Old 31st July 2005, 3:31 PM   #8
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Well I wonder why when you girls wear all that revealing clothing. If you look slutty they will treat you that way.
The response of a true gentleman
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Old 31st July 2005, 4:10 PM   #9
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Well I wonder why when you girls wear all that revealing clothing. If you look slutty they will treat you that way.
Yeah, man, let's burn the witches. It's their fault, they are ALL guilty. Because of them we have rape and crime on the street! :bunngy: And STDs! And Bush! And terrorists! And that's why our toast is burned in the morning! They are GUILTY!







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Old 31st July 2005, 4:24 PM   #10
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Yeah, man, let's burn the witches. It's their fault, they are ALL guilty. Because of them we have rape and crime on the street! :bunngy: And STDs! And Bush! And terrorists! And that's why our toast is burned in the morning! They are GUILTY!
You are right. I never knew a time when a woman was at fault. They are all little angels and should be treated that way. (sarcasm)

You brainwashed feminists are dumb
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Old 31st July 2005, 4:28 PM   #11
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You brainwashed feminists are dumb
I call people dumb who throw their prejudices around without even trying to gather evidence for the correctness of their assumptions.
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Old 31st July 2005, 4:31 PM   #12
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You are right. I never knew a time when a woman was at fault. They are all little angels and should be treated that way. (sarcasm)

You brainwashed feminists are dumb
Another pint of bitter, Bacardi?
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Old 31st July 2005, 4:49 PM   #13
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I call people dumb who throw their prejudices around without even trying to gather evidence for the correctness of their assumptions.
So you are saying women are never at fault and always correct?
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Old 31st July 2005, 5:12 PM   #14
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So you are saying women are never at fault and always correct?
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Well I wonder why when you girls wear all that revealing clothing. If you look slutty they will treat you that way.
What do you mean with "you girls"? You didn't know how Stone was dressed. You don't know how I dress. Sometimes you get groped because the guy is just a dumb caveman who has zero respect for another person's privacy not because of the way you dress.

Did you understand what I said or is it necessary to grunt?
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Old 31st July 2005, 7:21 PM   #15
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Now now kids....
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