Ok, I've got a problem. I've got this girls number...but I'm just way to shy for my own good. I know she likes me, I just have no idea what to say. It's not that I'm bad at small talk, I just hate it. Any help would be GREATLY appreciated.
Last edited by blake987; 13th July 2005 at 8:40 PM..
I do not know how old you are, I would assume young. Look at it this way.....what do you have to lose....if you do not call, you will never know. Just call. Make a list before you call of topics to bring up...most likey, the girl will talk your ear off! So you will have no worries.
you know she likes you already so keep that in mind. just be yourself. talk about things that you like and that she likes. keep the conversation light and fun. if you find yourself stuck, ask her what she did last weekend.
ask her about herself, really you're just trying to get to know this girl, right?
the first scentence sounded pretty good. instead of worrying, just be excited! you get to hang out with someone you like who likes you back....what could be better? it's ok to be a little nervous, to get those butterflies, that's the fun part. just relax, have a good time, have fun....and if you feel yourself getting too worried, just pretend that she's just one of your friends.
Ok, last question. Where should I take her? Last time I took a date to a movie it was just awkward. And other than that all we have is bowling and Hollywood Video.
Well it all depends on how much money you have to spend. You can take her to an amuzement park or to the beach and play in the arcades (if you have that near) or you can take her to a picnic at a park....there are so many things that you can do but it all depends on money and time.
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