i posted this similar post in another section but i have a different question.

my ex gf (21) and I (22) broke up for the 2nd time in 4 yrs, she broke it off both times, 2nd time was almost mutual bc we werent getting along and it wasn't the same as the 1st time plus college life.

we've been broken up for 2 months now, i saw/talk to her last friday for the 3rd time since the breakup, and for the 1st time since the breakup we had a feelings talk. we agreed were both not over each other yet but think our past maybe too beat up to work again. but said in the future who knows. shes also seeing someone else (bc she CANT be single, not kidding, only child).

i do want us to work. did i take a big step back in getting her back bc we talked about feelings? do u think its over for good? and do I start going NC again or gradually start talking again?

[fundamental]

I believe most people on this board will utter the words.....


NO CONTACT

[phoenix333]

shes also seeing someone else

I would recommend you continue no contact, unless you can handle hearing about how great this new guy is.
She's not single, she's not available, chances are you will be strung along.
If you really want to move on, then you know what you have to do. NC.

[ck_guy02]

I can honestly say.....


that every time I talked to her... it felt good for a split second.. and then I felt like crap for days after....