Did he do it to you? If your bday passed that is. See, I was wondering this too. Are you on NC as of now? If so then no, don;t send hi a message. If you guys are friends and talk here and there, then yes. But if it was a nasty break up then leave well enough alone.
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I want to be the one he looks at, then smiles and says to his friends--that's her...
Well thats sort of what I thought, but i feel bad? For my day he had a party for me and gave me a beautiful ring - which i dont even wear anymore since he dumped my a$$ 3 weeks later!!! ugh!!
Well lets see he broke up with me for no reason and that was 2.5 months ago, it took him FOREVER to give me my things back and it wasnt even everything...
We work for the same company and have run into each other several times...
Just when i start to get over him, he suddenly resurfaces and it makes me SOO mad!! He sent me an email last week to see how my vacation was...as if he should care...but like an idiot i responded, he got what he wanted and then stopped replying to my emails...
So after that I got mad and decided NC is best for this situation. I even changed my workout schedule as of monday so that he cant see me.
My bday was before we broke up so yes it passed. I just didnt know if I should wish him a happy bday or not?
I guess the verdict is NO!!!
Geez i feel bad but I guess everyone is right, i shouldnt give him the satisfaction that he crossed my mind that day. It will probably hurt him more by me not acknowledging it.
If you send him a message he'll think that you still care and than you'll open yourself up again to him. What happens if you send the message and he ignores the fact that you sent it?? How will you feel??
The best thing to do is forget about him and move on.
Originally posted by queenie01
It will probably hurt him more by me not acknowledging it.
I was thinking the same thing. My ex's is the SAME DAY as my sister's so he knows I'm going to remember, but I wont say anything to him. Whats the point, so he can feel special?
**** that!
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