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My best guy friend of 3+ years keeps asking me to give him full body (non sexual) massages meanwhile for the last 2+ months he is now living with his g/f! Is this common b/w really close male/female friends or should I be asking him why doesnt he just ask his g/f for this??? I dont mind at all giving it to him.. but I want to know why I am the one he always is asking for it from.
Why haven't you already asked him WHY he keeps asking you?
It's too freakin' weird. This is definitely NOT something you ask a friend to do unless you have the hots for them. Tell him to get go down to the local massage clinic (no, not the "me love you long time" kind).
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Oh Damn!
See I would so kick my BF's ass if he asked one of his Girl buddies to give him a massage
Hell yeah ask him why he doesn't ask his GF to do this for him.. sheesh!
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Full body, naked? I'd be a bit concerned then, but if it's non sexual then I personally wouldn't be worried. Maybe his girlfriend doesn't like giving them. Best to ask him though.
Are you a qualified massuese? If not, tell him to go pay for it
Originally posted by Merin
What if his GF also doesn't like giving Blowjobs what then?
JK JK JK
good question lol
Seems to me you can't possibly have a good full body massage unless you're damn near buck nekkid.....and I personally can't imagine getting one from a close guy friend and not being turned on by the very act of it, a full body massage is so good and hands slip and touch things they shouldn't lol. Well okay, maybe if my close guy friend had a unibrow and only one pearly white front tooth
Another thing he does which doesnt fall under cheating but if you spend the whole day at home with your g/f why would u come over to your friends place later that night and ask her to cook u food?? Well he should be doing it himself 1st off but why again would he be asking me for this and not his g/f???
Originally posted by confused21
Another thing he does which doesnt fall under cheating but if you spend the whole day at home with your g/f why would u come over to your friends place later that night and ask her to cook u food?? Well he should be doing it himself 1st off but why again would he be asking me for this and not his g/f???
You really gotta be asking HIM these questions - we can't read his mind, we don't know what his motivations are.
So are you a massage therapist or something?
Why haven't you asked him why he keeps asking you for a massage?
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Originally posted by confused21
Another thing he does which doesnt fall under cheating but if you spend the whole day at home with your g/f why would u come over to your friends place later that night and ask her to cook u food?? Well he should be doing it himself 1st off but why again would he be asking me for this and not his g/f???
Are you sure his GF isn't one of those "I got her in the mail and she came with a pump?"
Well we were FWB until his g/f moved in with him... he keeps saying we are just friends but he continues to treat me as more then a friend and I'm not saying in a sexual sense. I just want an explanation but I feel if I quesiton him he will get all weirded out.
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Originally posted by confused21
Well we were FWB until his g/f moved in with him... he keeps saying we are just friends but he continues to treat me as more then a friend and I'm not saying in a sexual sense. I just want an explanation but I feel if I quesiton him he will get all weirded out.
Well honestly I think the answer is pretty clear..
He would still like to get it on with you on the low.
Sounds like an assclown to me.
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