Met a chic and we hit it off
She would touch me in ways as if she was actually my gf, so i cut all the b.s. and
I asked her out, and she denied me
I moved on and ignored her, though i see her every day and when we cross paths, im casual. Now its to the point i dont even acknowledge her if i walk by her
Since i started this, she tries harder to get my attention. She pops up within 10 feet of me every time. Couple times, she said hi, and i said hi back. I always catch her checkin me out. Found out through a source that she's really interest in me........ok, so then why the denial of the date?
All of a sudden she starts talking to a girl buddy of mine as if she wants to be her friend.

I cant figure out what her intentions are here. Im trying to move on, but now she tries a little bit harder

[orta]

Have you thought about asking the girl what she is doing? The next time she pops up in front of you, as you say she often does, it might be a good idea to ask her what she is planning. It sounds like you might want to mention that you showed an interest in her, and she denied you, and now it seems that she is trying to get your attention again. Maybe you might ask her if she does have an interest, and if not, ask her why she seems to want to talk to you so much.

[crazy_grl]

Let her know that if she likes you, she should act like it and be an adult about it. If she doesn't like you, then she should leave you alone. If you still want to go out with her, let her know that you'd like to, but that if she doesn't want to, you'd appreciate it if she quit bothering you.

IMO though, people who only come after you once you've moved on and are no longer interested in them aren't worth pursuing. They're only in it for the chase and will move on once they know they have you, then they'll find different prey.

[Jennifer'sSecret]

What did she say when she "denied" you? What was her reason? Was it because she was busy on the requested date day? Does she have a boyfriend?

Don't you think going from being flirty to instantly ignoring her once she turned you down is just a little bit immature?

Her denial was not right now. She isnt seeing anyone as far as i know.
I did not ignore her after the denial. I observed her behavior as time passed and i was casual when i would walk by her. She would flirt with other guys in my presence and she would look at me while she was doing it, and she still does to this day. Im at the point now, that i can give a rats azz about her. Me doing this make "her Feel" that im playing a stupid game, when in reality.......i know when to move on and forget about her which for some reason makes her chase me.

Is it inmaturity on my behalf? I dont think so. I asked her out once being denied. After that, its time to move on, and not bother wasting my time pursuing her making myself look like a fool. I will not ask her out again. I offered her a date the first time, and its one time only in my view.

I gave her a chance and she blew it. She tried to play hard to get and it didnt work. Now she's trying to get closer by entering my circle of friends.