I have. Its the biggest load of crap on the internet. The only good thing about it is the 30 day money back gurantee, which I made full use of. Dont waste your money on those e-books. They say mostly the same thing ie dont contact them for awhile, work on improving yourself, dont push them etc. I think it's immoral of those authors to promise a "guranteed method" for getting an ex back. You can't make someone come back to you. Just let them go and get on with your life. They may or may not come to you in the future.
Dukkha's right - there's no magic voodoo spell or secret method to winning back an ex - the best thing to do is leave them alone. When you chase someone they have the ball in their court and they take you for granted knowing you're waiting in the wings. When you fall off the face of the earth - I kid you not - it makes people wonder what happened to you and curiosity gets the best of them - they come a knockin'.
The problem with this is your ex might not contact you for 4 more months or they might suddenly contact you in a few days. I can tell you one thing - they always tend to show up or call right when you've suddenly gotten over them and stop thinking about them. It's the law - you decide you no longer need them - RING, RING - they're on the other end of the phone calling to see how you've been doing.
Hopefully by then you have regained your intelligence and you realize they weren't that great after all and you're better off without them.
How many times do we all look back at old ex's and say "What was I thinking?". If you give it time you'll get to this point with your recent ex.
Right after a breakup you can only remember how wonderful they were - and all those memories...... Give it time and all the annoying crap will come back and you'll wonder why you put up with it as long as you did.
I haven't read any of the e-books but I did purchase Blaise Harris---How to win your lover back. It was a good book, I've read it over and over several times. I'm not sure the tactics work tho. I'm one of those people in the "i f***g hate you, and I'm pissed off one day/loving you the other" stages. I'm still trying to sort out my feelings. The part Jeannie said about remembering how wonderful they are at first really hits the nail on the head. Break ups are so confusing. One day you think you'll die without them, the next you hate their guts. It's such an emotional roller coaster. I do wonder, how long does it take to get past this phase and into the "i'm getting over them" stage? I know that's when they will probably as everyone says, come knocking. It's been only about a month of NC for me. I just want to fast forward to the part where I'm not waking up with him as the first thought in my mind. I've done the keeping busy, moving on with my life thing but there are sooo many times when my demons find me. Any advice? How long does this stuff take??????
I personally havent read it. Just wondering whether anyone has read it and whether it actually works.
Whether there was ACTUALLY a way to get someone back.
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come on Dukkha, what is the four step strategy, its says on the website I'll even show you what you can do to turn events around 180 ° to your favor. exactly as you want it, without breaking a sweat! So once you learn this amazing 4-Step "strategy", understand it, and learn exactly how to use it, you can literally become a powerful wish-maker!
1. Buy the book
2. Read it carefully
3. Don't be too clingy, get on with your life, let them chase you, etc. Whatever.
4. If it doesn't work, pay to go to one of his seminars.
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Most of them in the books on how to win your love back is.....
1. Don't chase after them, it just pushes them away
2. Work on yourself
3. Don't call them for atleast 4 weeks after a break up
4. If and when you do start talking be nice and let them come back to you, don't pressure them.....
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Tell me this then. When my ex told me she loved me and wanted to be with me, but said she cant right now bc she =has a B/F. should I not have pressured her to make up her mind??
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