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Old 2nd July 2005, 9:44 PM   #1
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Flirting with girl in a relationship, need help on next steps

I met this girl on the street near my work. I had actually seen her the day before shopping and thought she was hot. I walked up to her and said 'hi'. She sounded happily surprised. I introduced myself and so did she. We shook hands. I said,

"I've seen you around here before, do you work around here?".

"Yeah, I work at such and such."

"Oh yeah? I work here too."

"I used to work at this bank."

"I don't think I'll be working in financial services though."

"God,I wish I could dress like you today."

She said, " Well,I guess we could change clothes, but we'ed both look pretty silly. But yeah, it's been pretty hot lately."

I saw she was holding a shopping bag and asked her: " Out to do some shopping?"

"Yep, and I'm on my way to the bank. Are you out to enjoy the weather?"

"Yep, just enjoying the sun on my lunch hour."

We approached her bank, and I was feeling a little apprehensive.I thought I'd give her my card and number, I said:

"Just a sec,I'd like to give you my card if you want to call me...."

And of course, I reach into my wallet and therer's no card.

"I don't know if you have a boyfriend...." And before I could finish, she reached out her hand and said, "Well, it was really nice to meet you.

A week goes by and I'm leaving my office and see her shopping again. I walk up to her thinking...this is perfect.

I call out her name and she says hi with a big smile. "How's it going?"

"Good." I then look her up and down, notice what she's wearing and her shopping bags and ask her: "Are you still working here?"

Yeah, I just left early to do some shopping. Spending my pay cheque."

"Yeah, I just got off work early too. Look, I never got a chance to give you my number when I saw you last. And, I wanted to ask you out. Are you seeing anyone?"

"She replied, "Yes, I am unfortunately."

"oh, too bad."

Then, here's the kicker...she says:" I WISH I WASN'T ONCE I MEET A MAN LIKE YOU".

She's kind of blushing at this point. And, after hearing this rather overt expression of interest, I say:

"Well, if you change your mind, or if...."

She finishes my sentence, "...It doesn't work out?"

"Yeah, why don't you call me?"

I reach in my shirt pocket and pull out a card, scribble my number and email on the back, and hand it to her.

"Thanks."

"We'll probably see eachother around, I work right here. "

At this point, when I'm talking, she looks me up and down-CHECKING ME OUT.


A big smile as she peers into my eyes." Well, have a great weekend."

Now my question is, does this sound like interest on her part? We've only spoken twice and she is seeing someone. So, my expectations aren't too high. But still, she seems like she is interested in messing around or at least dating in the future if things don't work out.

She has my number and email and hasn't tried to contact me yet, by the way. It's been a week.

Any other ideas on next steps too?
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