Meeting the Fam tonite!

Merin · 1st July 2005, 4:30 PM

So tonite I'm meeting my BF's family for the first time.. this includes Parents, Siblings, Nephew's, Niece's, his EXMIL and his EXW.. (I actually met her for the first time this past Sunday and she's the one who invited me to come tonite)

This is for My BF's son's Birthday Party..

So the only People there I actually know are his Wee Peeps and obviously my BF

When I met his EXW and she invited me, she was very nice and seemed sincere.. I'm pretty certain she has told the rest of his family (or at least her Mom) that I will be there tonite..

On one hand I think this is a good sign from my BF that he is willing and finally ready for me to meet the rest of his family.. on the other hand I'm also feeling kind of nervous about this.. LOL I have stressed the hell out over what to wear this, that, the other..

Typically I'm a very outgoing girl.. it's just that I hope things won't be wierd with his EXW and EXMIL sitting there you know? Although I'm always also very nice to my EXH GF and there isn't any motive there.. I just don't care that they are together LOL make sense?

So yeah there ya go.. wish me luck you guys!

IhavenoFREAKINclue · 1st July 2005, 4:50 PM

Good luck Merin! With all the smooth talking you do here on LS....They'll love you!

I met my BF's 'rents last weekend and like you said, They loved me!

I wish you the best...Remember....be yourself....don't get too drunk and give his dad a lap dance (not that you would do that but when ppl get drunk...who knows)

Just be yourself and have fun!

A Fly onThe Wall · 1st July 2005, 4:52 PM

Goodluck Merin.. Everything will be fine.. Just be yourself and be outgoing.
and don't forget to have fun..

tanbark813 · 1st July 2005, 5:00 PM

Good luck, Mer-dawg, but I'm sure things will be fine. I know you'll tear up his EXW and EXMIL during the mud wrestling portion of the evening. Remember, go for the knees.

Merin · 1st July 2005, 5:02 PM

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Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue
Good luck Merin! With all the smooth talking you do here on LS....They'll love you!

I met my BF's 'rents last weekend and like you said, They loved me!

I wish you the best...Remember....be yourself....don't get too drunk and give his dad a lap dance (not that you would do that but when ppl get drunk...who knows)

Just be yourself and have fun!

OMG Girl at first I read that wrong... could've sworn it said GIVE HIS DAD A LAP DANCE not DON'T GIVE HIS DAD A LAP DANCE

This is a party for a little boy.. LOL he just turned 3 today, so no drinking at all.. Son of a

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LOL Thanks for the wishes girly, I'll let you know how it goes!

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Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall
Goodluck Merin.. Everything will be fine.. Just be yourself and be outgoing.
and don't forget to have fun..

Thanks

Breathing in, Breathing out... LOL
Usually parents like me... but yeah it's just the added element of the EXW and EXMIL being there... so *Blows into paperbag* LOL I'm hoping for the best!

Merin · 1st July 2005, 5:04 PM

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Originally posted by tanbark813
Good luck, Mer-dawg, but I'm sure things will be fine. I know you'll tear up his EXW and EXMIL during the mud wrestling portion of the evening. Remember, go for the knees.

I'll take video and photo's for you Tan.. it's gonna be sweet!
A bday party his son will never forget uh? Whoo!

Mz. Pixie · 1st July 2005, 5:08 PM

Good luck darlin!

Merin · 1st July 2005, 5:14 PM

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Originally posted by Mz. Pixie
Good luck darlin!

Thanks Pix

CurlyIam · 2nd July 2005, 10:13 AM

Have a good time, MErin!

alphamale · 2nd July 2005, 10:54 AM

is this the same dude you broke up with a month or two ago? the guy you went to mexico with? the guy who you vowed would never re-enter your life?

CurlyIam · 3rd July 2005, 4:55 PM

Shut up, you dog!

Personally, I know no relationship that's easy - kinda like the saying " that who has never sinned shall cast the first stone".

Merin · 5th July 2005, 2:48 AM

Alpha, yes it is the same guy.. D

H!

Thank's Curly, coudn't have said it better myself girl..

Soooo I met his family Whoo!

LOL it was actually not as hard as I had thought it would be... his parents are nice, I liked his brother a lot, AND his EXW, EXMIL, and EXFIL as well... Whew... All of the Ex's were VERY nice to me.. so it was cool

After it was all said and done my BF asked me "So how was that for you?" I said I was glad I had met his family finally and I had a good time...

Stayed over with my BF on Friday night... on Saturday HE asked me if I had given any thought to the 2 of us living together...

LOL I was suprised because of his fear of being in a relationship issues... but yeah I was happy he has been thinking about it... my lease is up in December soooo possibly then we will move in together.. by that time it will be a year for us in our relationship.. we'll see what happens but yeah I'm hoping

Thanks you guys for all your help

l2hvn · 5th July 2005, 10:48 AM

wow.... that went out great... good for you!

i finally met my bf's daughter over the weekend. at first, she was a little shy, but she warmed up to me and started talking endlessly..

so, my next big step is meeting the rest of his family this coming weekend. im just as nervous as you were.... i think im going to

...

alphamale · 5th July 2005, 10:52 AM

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Originally posted by Merin
Alpha, yes it is the same guy.. D

H!

just proves my point that women looooovvvee the bad boyz

Merin · 5th July 2005, 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by l2hvn
wow.... that went out great... good for you!

i finally met my bf's daughter over the weekend. at first, she was a little shy, but she warmed up to me and started talking endlessly..

so, my next big step is meeting the rest of his family this coming weekend. im just as nervous as you were.... i think im going to

...

LOL Well I guess I'm lucky in the way that my BF really has great kid's! I met them shortly after my BF and I started dating and I am the one and only girl his kids have met... so that was kind of cool

I'm crazy about his kids, they're cool little people

My BF has some issues with fear of relationships so it's taken him some time to get there in introducing me to the rest of his family.. he knows all of my family, friends and of course my wee peeps.. meeting his family was good I guess I was more apprehensive because I wasn't only meeting his family I also was meeting his EXW's Mom and Dad

LOL and I had only met her one time before going to this party.

I'm sure you'll do fine in meeting the rest of your BF's fam.. but yeah I feel ya girl on being nervous!

Good Luck