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Old 28th June 2005, 6:01 PM   #1
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Is marraige worth it?
Is marriage worth it?

In spite of all your problems in your marriage. Is it worth it?
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:04 PM   #2
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For Me.. NO it wasn't worth it, so I divorced him
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:05 PM   #3
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Yes. Above all, yes.

Faith, hope in love are grand. But the greatest is love.

And besides, who else will wipe yo ass when you're 87 and poopin ya dwalls?
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:06 PM   #4
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And besides, who else will wipe yo ass when you're 87 and poopin ya dwalls?
I thought that's what I had Wee Peep's for?
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:10 PM   #5
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I'm such a romantic.


I really want to marry my bf but he is dragging his feet. I just picture growing old together and crabbing at each other and holding hands ect..
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:12 PM   #6
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I'm such a romantic.


I really want to marry my bf but he is dragging his feet. I just picture growing old together and crabbing at each other and holding hands ect..
There's nothing wrong with that Girl
The key is in finding the right person.. that was my problem when I got married.. I knew I shouldn't, did it anyway.. and it didn't work out.. well that, plus he's an assclown
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:16 PM   #7
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Find a romantic. Then let it fly.
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:17 PM   #8
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Re: Is marraige worth it?
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Is marriage worth it?
No!
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:24 PM   #9
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:25 PM   #10
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You don't need marriage to get those things
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:28 PM   #11
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Absolutely if you find the right person. But marriage for marriage's sake? NO WAY!
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The American Dream isn't an American dream for nothing. It's what many strive for. It's normal to want it.
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:33 PM   #13
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Absolutely if you find the right person.
Unfortunately in the real world people find out way too late that Mr or Ms "Right" is in actuality Mr or Ms "Wrong". And by then they've been married already
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:40 PM   #14
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Unfortunately in the real world people find out way too late that Mr or Ms "Right" is in actuality Mr or Ms "Wrong". And by then they've been married already
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Old 28th June 2005, 6:42 PM   #15
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I think the unfortunate delusion is that marriage makes things more permanent and enables you to focus on fixing the problems in the relationship because you don't have to worry about giving up.

It may have been that way at one time, but it isn't anymore, and as a result you find that the problems you thought you could fix by marrying them end up getting worse until the marriage ends--or worse, doesn't end.
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