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I have been dating a guy for 2 months. We were friends for about 2 years before this. We are very into each other. Or so it seems. But lately I have been thinking about how I miss him so badly. It hurts I am falling for him and I want to see him more. We see each other about twice a week. first it was once now its twice. I am hoping that in time we will eventually be spending alot more time together. But from what I remember dating in the past guys are usually all about seeing me all the time. Now those relationships didnt' work out so maybe this is the right route. but I miss him and its like its tuesday I haven't seen him since Friday night. He asked to see me Thursday and i know he doesn't have anything else the rest of the week. Why So far away? Does anyone know what I am going through or know the other side of the story. Maybe he doesn't want to come on to strong or maybe he just isn't that into me. I think he is it feels like he is. I am just not use to a guy only wanting to hangout twice a week. I want to see him more then that. He is moving out this week to another apartment and I mentioned how I hate my roommate situation. He said come live with me. I was like umm.... thats kinda serious and he said nothing. I just don't get it. In time will we end up seeing each other way more or is this guy just like this? I am so confused and fustrated. I don't want to say anything because I dont' want to scare him. I am trying to keep my distance because I am falling for him so hard and I don't see him much its so hard to hold back my feelings. I don't want to scare him. Anywa advice please please help me clear my head.

Thanks

[Lonestar]

Well, he did ask you to live with him. You would have seen him every day then. Back down the amount of time you see him to 1.5 times every two weeks. I'll bet he asks to see you a lot more after that. Don't always be available and jump every time he wants to see you. Stop waiting, do your thing, don't be so accessible.

[CurvyGurl]

If he gets scared at you suggesting seeing each other another day a week, then is he someone that you'd want ot be with? If he goes running scared at the thought of getting together Tuesday AND Thursday AND a day this weekend, do you still want to continue dating him? That's not that scary and unless he has somehting pressing that's taking up his time, the thought of wanting to see him more should be flattering and ego feeding.

He's keeping you at arm's length for a reason. We hope that reason is legitimate.

[smile95]

i wish I had your problem.....I see mine once every 3 months or so. Be grateful for what you have. Do not smother him. It is more exciting to miss them and then spend time with them.