[Linlin]

Ok, some of you know my lament about the customs broker boy.

Last Monday we went out again (3rd time, but the dates have been spaced far between). Had a great time. He brought me his ball schedule, hinted that he was free the day I have to go to this wedding, when we were in bed, he asked me when I was free again. I told him I was available Saturday, which I already knew happened to be the day he wasn't available and he laughed. We didn't set up another time.

We emailed on Wednesday and he told me he had a great time, etc. etc.

On Friday I sent him a quick email to say that I had be to the Dr. for my surgery check-up and if he wanted to talk call me at work after 1:30. He called right on the dot. We talked for half and hour. He was nice to me but told me he wasn't in the best of moods because he got in crap at work and felt like he was getting the flu. At the end of our convo, I asked did he was to go to the concert and the wedding. He said probably no to the concert and probably yes to the wedding. He said that he was in a terrrible mood and talk to him about going to the wedding next week.

I emailed today but no response.

What gives with this guy? He seems to give me "interested" signals (emails, ball schedule, hinting to go to wedding) and then backs off. We are both almost 40 and I am too old to play games.

What do you guys think gives here??

Alpha, where are you?

[Dasani]

Your situation seems fine.. you 2 = good... up to the part where you said you emailed him today... and no answer yet. When do you expect him to email you back? I personally have a till the end of work day (not including weekends) time limit on emails when its sent to people AT work.

Sounds like you 2 are going to wedding together still.. doesnt it? Saturday is 5 days away and flus usually dont last that long. Unless I missed something and the wedding happend this past Sat.

I'm not near 40, so i'm first to admit I dont have the years and years of experience. But looks like you both have been upfront so far and you're just waiting for a response.

[laRubiaBonita]

Drop this Guy!

he is Just sleeping with you, and giving you "dates" as a pay off.

he will get back to you about the wedding? tell him you need to know on tuesday, or else you will have to ask someone who can FOR-sure commit.

what is there to figure out? he likes your arse, when you give it up so freely.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Linlin
Alpha, where are you?

right here LINLIN

he is playing hard-to-get most likely. he knows he can pique your interest by doing this (most people of our age know this cause of experience).

just relax and don't bug him too much. you've only been out 3 times and if you come off as too possessive or demanding up front then he will run for the hills.

actually, he is doing what I would do. and it usually works to get the woman more interested...

maybe you're dating me and don't know it

[Linlin]

Alpha,

Are you a 6'3', 250lbs blond guy in disguise?

Now I know why I have never or won't ever again date a blond. Too much work!!

PS Alpha, that's one of my favourite quotes. Maybe I should be your OW!!!