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Old 22nd June 2005, 7:00 PM   #1
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Exclamation Im stuck on getting girls (Opinion from girls prefured)

Hi im just new to this hole LS.org thing I need some help

I used to have a huge group of friends but lost that all so Ive goda start all over again with every thing.

I feel so lost some what I have no problem making friends but I find it very hard getting any girl's attention,

there is one girl I like from a acting group ive just joined for example but im not in the play with nothing to do and im stuck on what to do.

chances are I cant talk to her untill September, since when do guys get the girl that they long for what are the chances of that im 19 and not had much XP (experience) < this is a ghost BTW

I wont be seeing the group for
the holidays and untill September

any thoughts on my love life just like to add im not that bad looking not fat or goin balled, that dude's found a girl my age and is 40, so there must be some thing im missing.

waiting for some help on this please thanks
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Old 22nd June 2005, 8:48 PM   #2
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It's called confidence.....get some.
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Old 22nd June 2005, 10:26 PM   #3
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can you re-write that in English please? I honestly have no idea what the question is...I was so caught up in figuring out the spelling and grammer?

I think you want to know how to meet people? Join new groups, a gym, a club.
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Old 23rd June 2005, 8:21 AM   #4
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Sorry, although i did use spell check (I cheat i use google

for example theres a girl im after, I dont know her very well cos ive just joined the acting/drama group and not realy int the play that they are doing.

Im trying to fit in i thougt i was gona do some thing in the play like the lighting but thats flopped, no one is interested in talkin to me Its always seems to be me saying stuff and they might go into it for abit then go and chat to some body eilnce

I sometimes go to The Pub afterwards with then and then things are abit better,
after a week they will finnish doin the play they are ferforming and I wont see any thing for untill september!

Apart from I dont understand why im not fitting in I just need abit of advise like when or how long untill I should ask this/a girl to meet me some time or any other advise.

I had girls before but I was younger then and they were younger and sillyer then me any way!

< this is the Ding Ding frog from mobiles (hes anoying)
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Old 23rd June 2005, 1:17 PM   #5
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Well, if you are decent looking, ask the girl out. You'll get a yes or a no, and that will be it. If you get a no, ask the next girl out. You'll get a yes eventually, you just have to be willing to hear the no's.

For the grammer and spalling nazi, it's actually spelled grammar. Grammer is a city in IN. Bitch.
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Old 23rd June 2005, 2:15 PM   #6
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Lightbulb

I used to do that OLo
Just randomly goup to girls and ask em out

If I talk to some body forabit on the day is that a good idea to askem
I always felt that you have to know some body for months and become realy close.

Mabe its the red hair wat you recgon?
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Old 23rd June 2005, 2:32 PM   #7
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If I talk to some body forabit on the day is that a good idea to askem
I always felt that you have to know some body for months and become realy close.
Yes. Ask them out. Fear of rejection is what makes people lonely. The truth is that people reject you everyday in one way or another, so what's the difference if one out of a billion girls does the same? Just do it. Who cares what the outcome will be. It's 50/50 and I'll take those odds any day.

It's not the red hair. But if that bothers you, dye it. I guarantee it won't improve your odds. Ask out a chick with red hair.
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Old 23rd June 2005, 4:06 PM   #8
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