they are with someone else that they claim they are just dating?
Is your ex doing that...? mine thinks i am her soul mate yet still is dating someone else whom she says is not her soulmate....we both believe in soulful connection...her and i have it! i don't know, does it really work...
how should i go about ignorng her when she has someone else to occupy her time....
i don't get iT!
she met this person after couple of weeks and now she acts as if she is inlove...
i moved out, and now they sleep in what use to be me bed...
even after our break up, we still slept together, she would ask me to come back in bed but i would insist that i stay in the living room cause i didn't want her to think she had me on a string.....
how do i make her wnat me back trough ignoring her...will it work...it did for before but now she has somone who she is dating...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
OK, now, for the 2,759,377th time on this forum, I will repeat it one more time. A great number of people tend to want what they can't have and reject that which is readily available to them. There's a fine art in being a person who is extremely desireable to women because of his cocky, don't give a hoot attitude. It drives women crazy, especially those who are used to men kissing their XXXes.
There are lots of threads on this forum and many articles on the Internet about "nice guys." It's hard to get through people's skull that it's NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL to a woman to have a man call her after a break up to cry or grovel and beg for another chance. It repulses them and drives them farther away. Women want me who are confident and who exude the belief that if it doesn't work out with them, it's just fine and dandy....there are 47,835,294 others our there to choose from right in your country.
Just stop calling her entirely and see how fast she's calls you to see what's going on....haha!
I just happened to stumble accross this thread, which coincidentally at this writing is right below yours. Read the lead post and you'll see what's going on in a woman's head when she's ignored....haha! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t65104/
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The principle works both ways. Men are not attracted in anyway to women who beg and grovel. The more aloof people appear, the more appealing it is for some people.
When you don't care about the outcome you become more interesting to the person. Everyone wants to be wanted and when you take that want away they get scared and want you again. I would say you are in charge. If you want him back then make him respect you but if you now feel like he's not worth it then just move on.
This is so funny I was just discussing this in the car with my best friend. Her FWB didn't make time to see her so she said she wasn't going to answer his calls for a week and that then he would come crawling back.
But I always think one day he's not going to come back? Right? I dunno. I'm not good at the acting aloof thing. I always give in first. I thinks its because of my 'Tomorrow is not guaranteed motto' way of living life. ?
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I do not subscribe to this theory at all, I think once there have gone (as it was in my case) that ignoring them, did not make 1 inch of difference. To this day I'd love to contact her... but i feel inside that it will do no good, for numerous reasons...
Perhaps it may be a more youthful thing, people said to me that I waited to long to make contact with her and then by that time it was too late... but perhaps it does work... I am far from an expert.
More power to you if it works.... I think that the possability exists ONLY if the person falls out with the new person then I can see how it may work.
Originally posted by Tony
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
People, both men and women, like a challenge. Wussies are NOT a challenge. I'll say it again...
OK, now, for the 2,759,377th time on this forum, I will repeat it one more time. A great number of people tend to want what they can't have and reject that which is readily available to them. There's a fine art in being a person who is extremely desireable to women because of his cocky, don't give a hoot attitude. It drives women crazy, especially those who are used to men kissing their XXXes.
There are lots of threads on this forum and many articles on the Internet about "nice guys." It's hard to get through people's skull that it's NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL to a woman to have a man call her after a break up to cry or grovel and beg for another chance. It repulses them and drives them farther away. Women want me who are confident and who exude the belief that if it doesn't work out with them, it's just fine and dandy....there are 47,835,294 others our there to choose from right in your country.
Just stop calling her entirely and see how fast she's calls you to see what's going on....haha!
I just happened to stumble accross this thread, which coincidentally at this writing is right below yours. Read the lead post and you'll see what's going on in a woman's head when she's ignored....haha! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t65104/
As funny as that was, Pee---- errr Tony. It's excrutiatingly true!
It so works. Its worked on my ex ex BF, I now have him under the thumb haha and he admitted hes crazy about me. When we first split i begged for him back but then i stopped bothering and now hes crazy about me again lol. It hasnt worled on my newly ex yet but ots only been 10 days NC so..early days.
Originally posted by zack121
I do not subscribe to this theory at all, I think once there have gone (as it was in my case) that ignoring them, did not make 1 inch of difference. To this day I'd love to contact her... but i feel inside that it will do no good, for numerous reasons...
Perhaps it may be a more youthful thing, people said to me that I waited to long to make contact with her and then by that time it was too late... but perhaps it does work... I am far from an expert.
More power to you if it works.... I think that the possability exists ONLY if the person falls out with the new person then I can see how it may work.
I agree..apparently there is a reason why they are gone, so why would you want to dwell on that and get back into the same boat of problems again?
Unless its not about getting back with them, its just about the pure knowledge of knowing that if you wanted it, you could have it..
In that case then more people play games then what they admit.
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I thinks its because of my 'Tomorrow is not guaranteed motto' way of living life. ?
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