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Originally posted by I Got IT
but i really REALLY like him...i've never liked anyone so much in my life
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For your own happiness, you need to come to terms with the fact that he wants you as a friend only. It's terrible when someone feels s/he loves another who cannot offer her/him the same level of affection as she/he wants to give. Nonetheless, this often happens, and it is very likely the case here.
Unless you are willing to only have him as a friend and nothing more, then I fear you may be better just moving on. He was honest with you with respect to his limits, and it's honorable that he never strung you along.
You may well have to distance yourself from him, as it may be quite challenging to be around him, while at the same time desiring a deeper committment from him. This may prove very wearing on you, emotionally. My advice is simple, hunn. Move on to find a guy who can share the same level of committment with you, as you with him.
Peace.
Curt
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