[Athena21]

Okay, here it goes...


My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years and have been living together for a year. Amonth ago, he asked me to move out, but he still wanted to be together as a couple. I didn't understand but I moved out anyway. I have been out for a month, but he has asked me to stay the night almost every night that I haven't lived there. And me being so inlove with him, I always give in. Well, we have been getting into it a lot because I don't know why he asked me to move out, he will never give me a definite answer, it's always just "This is something that I have to do for myself".

So, since it is so unclear to me, we get in fights about if quite often. Well, I have broken up with him about two weeks after I moved out and the next day we were back together. Then about two weeks ago, he broke it off with me saying that I deserve better than what he is giving me. We were back together later on that night, and he said that he was sorry for hurting me.

Then last night the same thing happened, but the way that he did it was very indefinite, like he just wanted me to finalize it. He said it would be better for me if we broke up. So I asked him if he was breaking up with me and he said "ya sure". So I said ok. I think that he expected me to cry about it like I would normally do, but when I didn't, his tone changed, and then there was a long silence. Then I said that I was going to get off the phone, and he said "ok, I love you, and I'll talk to you later". This confused me, because it's not routine for him to say that, and why would break up with someone and say that?