[nicki]

Calling all males....Equal time for the "nice guy/bad guy thread."

What do you like in a woman?

Inquiring minds want to know

[LucreziaBorgia]

They want a girl who can be bad and good, and be able to master when and how to be each.

[nicki]

Yeah, that makes sense... how about some specifics about how that looks?

How would such a balanced woman be/act in certain situations?

What inspires men to want to be with a woman, to commit to that particular one, to say "wow," she's the one?

[NTB]

Originally posted by nicki
Yeah, that makes sense... how about some specifics about how that looks?

How would such a balanced woman be/act in certain situations?

What inspires men to want to be with a woman, to commit to that particular one, to say "wow," she's the one?

what you are asking can't be done like a model airplane every guy has different wants and needs one guy could want some crazy girl another could want a book worm it all depends.............in my case i want a girl i can take home to mom and when it comes to the bedroom she tries to rape me everytime...... ..


"be a good girl and come get these whippin's"

my ex was like that i wonder if i will ever find that again

[BigB]

I'd say we want a balance of both.

"nice" as in friendly, polite, someone we can bring home to mom, cute, girly, etc.

and "bad" as in, can stick up for herself a little, doesn't mind getting a little freaky, outgoing, independent, flirty, confident, doesn't put up with BS.


We don't want the needy, co-dependent, jealous, anti-social, door-mat "nice" girls.

and we don't want to crazy biotch, manipulative predator, "bad" girls.

I'm always smitten with the bad girls, but I know their bad for me... their just so hot...

[BigB]

Originally posted by NTB
in my case i want a girl i can take home to mom and when it comes to the bedroom she tries to rape me everytime...... ..

yeah, I want that too. When there all nice and polite around mom, but you KNOW how freaky they get when moms not around.. so hot.

[lindya]

Originally posted by NTB
what you are asking can't be done like a model airplane

Exactly. Different strokes for different folks - male and female alike.

[nicki]

I guess a better way of putting the question is, "What do YOU want in a woman?"

It's interesting to hear what individual men want...some of it seems to be universal, like a good girl socially, bad girl privately....we women love that in a man, too...

[ReluctantRomeo]

Originally posted by nicki
It's interesting to hear what individual men want...some of it seems to be universal, like a good girl socially, bad girl privately....we women love that in a man, too...

Have you never heard the proverb "good girl in the streets, bad girl between the sheets"?

I want a good girl who is kind, warm, fun and funny, but able to stand on her own 2 feet. And yes, uninhibited in bed.

[miss fortune]

I cant believe I am quoting ludacris, but he says it right when he says "We want a lady on the street but a FREAK in the bed".

[ConfusedInOC]

Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia
They want a girl who can be bad and good, and be able to master when and how to be each.

*ding ding ding*

We don't want in our women what you don't want in your men:

Liars
Cheats
Overly emotional
Insecure
Lacking self-confidence

We like some of the same things women want:

Confidence
Self-assuredness
Someone with their own life and friends
Someone not clingy
Feminine (we don't want to date "Butch")

Someone very equally balanced.

[superfabulous]

they want u to be good - but with a bit of mystery - so not always available ( for the just starting out relationships)

they want you to be fun, easy going and not a know it all-cuz they know it all

they also want u to be a sex kitten in bed....some have no clue tho how hot a woman can get-haha


I think you should be realistic when u think about what men want. Talk to the man your hanging with, ask questions about where he is at in life, what he thinks he wants....generally if he can't communicate or doesnt seem to know what it is- and you do -then I dont think you should invest in that relationship.

Its more fun to hangout with an inspirtational fun loving man who can walk his talk!

Did i help!?

[alphamale]

i need a woman who is a little good and a little bad and knows when to be which.

[noname]

Originally posted by nicki
I guess a better way of putting the question is, "What do YOU want in a woman?"

It's interesting to hear what individual men want...some of it seems to be universal, like a good girl socially, bad girl privately....we women love that in a man, too...

i am a little different. i consider the term "bad girl" to be someone who has negative qualities, one i wouldn't want to be with. freakiness and intimacy should not have a negative label. there are plenty of good women who can handle their business and still be great socially. likewise, there are a ton of women who are very sexual and completely evil.

a bad girl to me means someone who is too self centered, unbalanced, takes me for granted, too greedy, has no respect for herself or others, oblivious to reality, treats people how she would hate to be treated, and (______ insert whatever else you don't like). and doesn't give a sh*t how this effects her and other people...

a good girl to me is either one who doesn't display negative qualities or better yet... one who recognizes that she may display some of these faults, and is willing to learn, understand that she is a work in progress, and work on herself in order to be a more balanced person...

[nicki]

Well put, everyone...so, BALANCE is the key. (I'm glad I"m little bit of everything then, just need to stay balanced!)

And not "bad," but "uninhibited, passionate, confident, and a little naughty" when called for.