Heres a quick run down:

My girlfriend and I (of 2 years) recently broke up. Neither one of us has been able to get over things and its obvious that we both have a desire to get back together. She says she still loves but shes now saying shes no longer physically attracted to me and guys in general. I think this is just a sympton of some of other problem. We had a great relationship but I think shes either commitment phobic or some other issue that is causing this. I know shes afraid of having a failed marriage and our relationship was on track to be married eventually (atleast a few years away). She also has some daddy abandonment issues.

Any ideas?

[westernxer]

Ideas? Yeah, she's got issues.

Tell her to see a counselor.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

Originally posted by incubus075
...shes no longer physically attracted to (me and) guys in general....

Any ideas?

Here's one:

Bring another woman into the bedroom and see if she finds any attraction there.

I already know she has an attraction to women. I knew she was bi and had dated girls before. We had already had a 3 some with another girl before but it wasnt like she was overly into the girl after or anything. She just seems really confused right now.

I cant say im overly physically attracted to her right now. She is attractive but its not something Im really even thinking about it in wanting to get back to her. Sure I want to have sex with her but because I love her not cause I think shes hot.