[Dani999]

For the past few weeks, my boyfriend of 4 years is acting really strange. He keeps making up excuses of why he cannot hang out like he has so much to do or he is just too tired. Last night he said he was going out for a ride with his friends on their bikes, but he didn’t call all night and didn’t answer when I tried to call him. We made plans last night to go to dinner and a movie together, but he just called to cancel saying that he is going out to dinner with his parents. BTW, he didn’t invite me along. (His parents love me and I know they would) I’m not an idiot and I know all these actions are screaming, CHEATER!!

He is one that hates to be accused of things like I’m sure most people are, so how do I go about talking to him about this. If he has somebody or something better to do, why not just end it with me? I’m not his toy that will sit around and wait for him to decide when he wants to play.

My question is, what do you think of this situation? I have no proof that he is doing anything, I am just reading into what he is saying and doing. How do I find out or talk to him about it without him feeling attacked or accused. If I do that, he will just shut me out and that will get us no where. He isn’t going to come out and admit, yes dear I’m cheating on you. So what do I say/do? I am so thankful for any and all opinions or advice.