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Old 25th May 2005, 2:18 PM   #1
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Unhappy NC.....Just NOT working!!!
Wanna SCREAM it has been 1 week....
Just 1 week how sad! Since I began NC with my MM
I know...I know! But I wanna SCREAM!!!!
I want so bad to talk to him!
I changed my #'s & e-mail.....so I havent even had the satisfaction of him calling- Although I dont think he has!
When I decided on NC I asked him to please respect me & my feeling enough to not contact me. BUT now I feel like there is no other choice but to break!!!
Please remind me of all the reasons of why not to!!!!
I just want to know what he is doing...
If he misses me....
I have went so far as to track down a e-mail tracking program so I can make up a new e-mail & see how & when he checks these trick e-mails…..Pathetic huh!!!!
Just so I know……anybody with me?!?!?!
What is it about NOT knowing that makes you want to know sooooo bad?!?!?!?
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Old 25th May 2005, 3:15 PM   #2
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Judging by your screen name you are a female. Well I have a question for you. Who broke up with who? Also, what was the point of changing your number and changing your email? Its kinda funny because my ex did thesame thing a few weeks ago and I think it was unecessary. If somebody tells u not to call them, I would stop calling them. Do you actually feel better about changing your number?

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Old 25th May 2005, 3:38 PM   #3
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Most would not call....but he WOULD or he has in the past.
this time i broke up with him.....although his actions brought on that action.
Relationship is very unhealthy....I know that thus the decision for NC.....but killing me at the same time!
I hate that I changed my #'s b/c now I cant see if he has tried....I havent gotten his drunken calls
I dont KNOW that I am missing them....Like it b/c I dont have the pressure for the calls....the guilt for not answering....
So I do & do not like it!
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Old 25th May 2005, 3:44 PM   #4
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Thanks for the explanation atleast I can only imagine what my ex girlfriend is feeling because she pretty much did thesame thing to me. Although I have stayed faithful she went and cheated and broke it off with me lol. Thanks for the clarification, but I think that if you change your number he is getting the hint that you want it over 100%. I dont think he is going to chase after you because I sure as hell wont chase after my ex after her changing her number for no reason.

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Old 25th May 2005, 3:46 PM   #5
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Well how else would you know that she has changed her number except that you called after she asked you not to?!?!?!?
Yeah well I guess I just have to get over it!
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Old 25th May 2005, 3:59 PM   #6
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She actually came crying back to me and I didnt take her back. I told her that we should move things slowly and work out our issues. Then bam a few hours later I call her and everything is blocked/disc. It pissed me off because my hopes were up high and I got dropped on my face again. If you dont mind me asking what was the reason you broke up with him?

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Old 25th May 2005, 4:04 PM   #7
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Well how else would you know that she has changed her number except that you called after she asked you not to?!?!?!?
Yeah well I guess I just have to get over it!
Try to make it past 1 month and re-asess your feelings. 1 week is not long enough to be effective. It hurts but you MUST BE STRONG.
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