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Old 25th May 2005, 12:56 PM   #1
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Talking slept with ex's best friend last night

I was gonna keep this one to myself, but it's too good not to share with my friends at LS.



I think I'll let them sort this one out as I fade away...



Ex kept f***ing with my head, so I decided to do a little f***ing of my own.

Oh, it's the little victories that are so special...

I know, I'm a bad person. But if being bad is wrong, I don't want to be right.

So much for reconcilliation! I think no contact is about to end...
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:17 PM   #2
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OH no...what did you do????

I hope you know this means war!

Sometimes you have to come out losing in order to be a winner and become a stronger person. I'm not going to type and say "oh you did wrong" because I know you're in pain and you're hurting but remember what comes around goes around....If this made you feel better, all props to you!!

She may have left you and gone out with another guy, but not your best friend...OUCH, that's hard to take in. Just want you to know any chances you had to get back together are out of the question...Good luck and you know I'm here for you

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Old 25th May 2005, 1:23 PM   #3
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I'm sorry, but you go boy

You weren't hoping to reconcile...were you?
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:26 PM   #4
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OH no...what did you do????

I hope you know this means war! Sometimes you have to come out losing in order to be a winner and become a stronger person. I'm not going to type and say "oh you did wrong" because I know you're in pain and you're hurting but remember what comes around goes around.

She may have left you and gone out with another guy, but not your best friend...OUCH, that's hard to take in. Just want you to know any chances you had to get back together are out of the question...Good luck and you know I'm here for you
I know it probably wasn't the best decision I've made, but the ex has put me through so much pain in the last two months that I just wanted her to feel some too. I know it's selfish and when hindsight kicks in I'm sure I will feel like an ass, but right now, I feel good. She has been so intentionally hurtful lately without any reason. I don't want her back. I wanted my mojo back. And now it is.
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:27 PM   #5
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WHOOO HOOO!!!!!!! I did the same thing! Just a little gratification for the BS you had to deal with while in the relationship! Plus i was eying his friend ever since we got together....I couldn't wait to f*ck when we broke up!!!! HAHAHAHAH
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:27 PM   #6
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I don't want her back. I wanted my mojo back. And now it is.
Then in that case...WOOOHOOOO!!!! GET YO EAGLE ON...
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:28 PM   #7
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I'm sorry, but you go boy

You weren't hoping to reconcile...were you?
Nope. I did until she came and left again and was so incredibly mean.
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:31 PM   #8
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Wow...........Erm..Yeah ok. Ouch....
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:33 PM   #9
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Eh to hell with it!

While I don't think it says good things about your EX's "Best Friend" I would for real date My EX's Friend..
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:37 PM   #10
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I know, I'm a bad person. But if being bad is wrong, I don't want to be right.


good job bro.......i think i need to go out and do the same thing well maybe not the best friend but just get laid
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:52 PM   #11
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Hey, if she was a total b!tch to you, or cheated on you, then I say, "revenge is sweet." Says a lot worse about her "best friend" than it does you.

I had the opportunity about a month ago to sleep with a friend of my ex-wife. Honestly I don't know if they're still in much contact, but they used to be pretty close. I didn't go through with it; won't get into the reasons why, but it WASN'T because of any sense of duty to my ex. Hell, it was flattering enough that this woman wanted to jump my bones.
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Old 25th May 2005, 1:53 PM   #12
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Well I was going out anyhow, so like they say: why not go out with a bang?
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Old 25th May 2005, 2:12 PM   #13
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why not go out with a bang?
Literelly!
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Old 25th May 2005, 2:20 PM   #14
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BANG!!!!!
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Old 25th May 2005, 2:25 PM   #15
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Revenge is the dish best served cold - Kill Bill

Revenge - " Sleeping after the breakup with ex's friend"

Served cold - " when the ex's friend is her best friend"


Good Job, keep it up
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