Ok here's the scoop. I broke NC with the ex and that was a very, very bad thing to do. All I got was some very disappointing news. Such as: The woman I spent most of the last year with, whom I was madly in love with, already has started dating someone new. Not only that, she spent her birthday with him. I can't tell you how much that hurt because before the breakup I had invested a lot of time into working out how to celebrate her birthday. BigB, good thing I didn't buy her a present or call her on her birthday, huh?!
So now that NC has been broken, I am a mess. I thought I was strong but this news has literally brought me to my knees. So I am struggling with this bad news and how to handle it. I need to get NC implemented again. I know she is probably going to go head first into this relationship with this new guy because school is over soon and she'll have plenty of time to spend with him. That said, she might have plenty of time to think about us if he screws up, LOL. (OK self, shut up and stick to the topic).
Now the dilemma. My business partner took it upon himself to call a really nice looking single woman that he knows and basically offered me up for a date. She's smart, good looking and has an MBA. My issue is he called her, talked about me to her and now she wants me to call her tonight.
I CAN'T CALL HER TONIGHT! I am just not in the right frame of mind. I am sure she's probably a good fit for me and I should call her but I don't want to discuss the ex or even let her know that I am on the rebound....
What to do? Call her and set up a time to talk later?
Originally posted by ConfusedInOC
She's smart, good looking and has an MBA.
does she give head? if she does she could be the perfect woman!
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What to do? Call her and set up a time to talk later?
send her an email and tell her you've got some sheeyot going on now (don't specify what) and that you'll call her in next wk or two. this will pique her interest even more.
Originally posted by alphamale
does she give head? if she does she could be the perfect woman!
send her an email and tell her you've got some sheeyot going on now (don't specify what) and that you'll call her in next wk or two. this will pique her interest even more.
the sly alpha is at it again.
I don't have her email. She specified that I call her....
I wouldn't call tonight. Do it tomorrow. You will be in a bit of a better frame of mind then. If ya call tonight the mood you're in will show in your voice...She'll pick up on it and analyze it...Do it when you're feeling better.
Originally posted by Treasa
I think you should just call her. Keep it short, light, and for God's sake, don't bring up your ex. I promise you WILL get through this.
Man, just got of the phone with the Ex. No contact is now in full force. After what she told me, this woman does not deserve a man like me!!!
I'll call tonight but keep it short. She asked me to call.
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if she does she could be the perfect woman!
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