[SweetSerenity]

Something that puzzles me a little here. I was thinking about my exMM's reasoning for having an affair. He said it was for the excitement and he said it was for the thrill and he had a lot of feelings for me. Ok that aside he said the other reason why was because he couldn't get sexually aroused by his wife cause she was pregnant with a girl! I don't get that. Why would that be? I'm just looking for any insight into that. I have always thought that was bizarre. Real bizarre. He said if she had been pregnant with a boy that would have been different, but since its his daughter thats there he doesn't want to do it. Anyone have any insight to that bizarre ****?

I have also recently learned that he cheated on his first wife as well. The wife he has now is wife number two and lo and behold what did he do? Cheated again. At first he told me he had never had an affair. Hah! I have caught him in so many contradictories its unreal. Anyhow any insight into that would be appreciated cause I find him totally bizarre in his way of thinking and handeling things. So anyone up for analyzing that?

[pizzanova]

There's nothing to analyze. He's trying to justify his actions, and his excuse sucks.

[EnigmaXOXO]

You might find it MORE beneficial to do a little research on the subject yourself. This way you can process the information and come to your own conclusions. I'm worried that you might become upset or defensive with other people's opinions.

Try a google search on "serial cheaters" and sit back for a good read. I'd post you some links, but I don't think its permitted.

When you're done, come back and let us know how you analyse your exMM and whether or not you think he fits the profile.

I'd certainly be interested in hearing your take on the situation!

[RecordProducer]

Originally posted by pizzanova
There's nothing to analyze. He's trying to justify his actions, and his excuse sucks.

This is the whole truth. In any case why the girl vs. boy thing crossed his mind was probably because he would feel that he is f*cking his own daughter.
How convenient! Makes me wonder if he will one day!