Ex-GF and her new BF moved!!

BrotherAaron · 4th May 2005, 8:11 PM

Just found out that both my ex her new BF have moved, I think into an apartment together

. I'm confused how that worked out, they haven't even been together for very long (only since a little before we broke up, and she refused to move in with me until we were married (which was planned), but... I don't care! They're gone

! I don't care what they do, they can get married if that's what they want... and I never have to worry about seeing them makeout outside my window again (not that it'd have the same effect anymore).

I just thought of something that makes it even better... if she's in an apartment here, then she wont be going home for the summer, so there will be 300 miles between us! I couldn't have heard better news!! I feel like I just won the lottery... I have nothing to worry about anymore. I hope she moves to california with him after he fails out of school this summer (he got a 0.5 GPA, he wont be here for long). They can get a real nice trailer together, and have some kids. It will be grand.

You guys are great. your advice helped me more than I can say... my friends (who I'v since gotten rid of) were dumb****s, and a few of them were even advising me based on wanting her to get with this other guy... ugh... some of the only good advice I got was from here. I've always been a smart guy, and when it comes to this particular girl... way too giving, and when I got dumped, I tried to do that stupid friend thing that never works - until I followed my loveshack advice. When doing so made her want me back, I followed the loveshack advice once more and told her to get lost, she'd had her chance. Anyway, thanks for all the support, I'm still around to give advice, but I hope I'll never end up posting on this forum because I actually need the advice again.

faux · 5th May 2005, 12:33 AM

I remember when a troublesome ex of mine moved. I think I just had that "Oh happy day!" kind of reaction when I found out she was gone.

The Prototype · 5th May 2005, 1:17 AM

If it makes you feel any better, couples that live together are the second most likely to break up at some point. (Highest is among couples where one person has been divorced before...)

So, it will probably fail, if that is any consolation.

BrotherAaron · 5th May 2005, 1:48 AM

Thanks for the encouragement, but I don't really think it matters if they fail. I don't want her anymore, so she might was well be with him if that's what she wants. She was blowing him off until she realized I really wasn't going to take her back - so that effectively makes him Plan B. I hope he likes it.

The Prototype · 5th May 2005, 1:50 AM

That's the better attitude anyway dude. She is someone else's problem now (no offense to your ex of course...)

BrotherAaron · 5th May 2005, 1:53 AM

No offense to my ex? Why are we concerned about her? I'm the loveshacker... she's my ex. By definition, that makes her an evil bitch

snoop_dawg22 · 5th May 2005, 10:21 AM

Well beat this. Got an email from my ex yesterday saying that he's getting married. Ok and we've only been broken up since March. That was real quick of him to fall in love with somone. That just made me realize how such a loser he is and that I am better off without him in my life. Which has been tried and true. I know how you're feeling. I wasn't sad. I did get mad at first but I told him congrats and that I hope he's happy. I am dating someone that treats me the way I deserve to be treated and I know everyone on this board that's feeling like it would/will never happen will change their outlook once it does.... I did.

The Prototype · 5th May 2005, 10:59 AM

Just covering my ass, I agree. By definition, if we are here on loveshack, and they are there, they have turned to the darkside.

That includes my ex-girlfriend, Darth Melissa...

The Prototype · 5th May 2005, 11:02 AM

Today is Cinco de Mayo, you guys broke up in March, and he is getting married already!?!

What a tool, that is ridiculous. Just try and appreciate the fact that it isn't you he is marrying, because clearly he is way too indifferent towards marriage. That is crazy, sorry.

snoop_dawg22 · 5th May 2005, 11:14 AM

It's hard to believe but if he is then good luck to him! I am happy that it isn't me. I mean we dated for almost 3 yrs and he's been dating her since the beginning of March and they are already engaged? It is crazy and all I can say is thank God it wasn't me. Talk about a rebound... marriage?!

Just got to laugh.