ok this is a big one...ive known this girl a number of years...her brother is my best friend than when she started coming with us...i dont know we got kinda close and was asking me to go with her everywhere she went.... "come with me here" "lets go see the" that kinda thing and was always saying to me "u know u want me and cant have me" this went on for years...i know she used to like me cause we both admitted we did..well i like her...alot still and i dont know if she likes me..shes been going out with this other dude for like 4-5 months now...during this time she stopped with the hints and stuff and we never really talked cept a hi bye sorta thing...well just a couple days ago...she said to me "i can get you if i wanted too" ....shes got a b'f she says she loves..so what would make her say that and go back to the things she used to say to me...am i readin too much into this or does she still like me and loves her bf...or doesnt love her bf..im stranded and i need help..and im shy as it is..and i havent been able to tell her how i feel...HELP...thanks
but the thing is we would be together but her brothers are over protective and i never made the 1st move..in the 1st place so im kinda blamin myself...so u think she doesnt like me?
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but the thing is we would be together but her brothers are over protective and i never made the 1st move..in the 1st place so im kinda blamin myself...so u think she doesnt like me?
I wonder why you think the 2 of you would be together if it wasn't for her Brothers? While I can understand that her Brother is your Best Friend and it might be wierd for him a little if you were to date his Sister... she is dating someone right? So whats up? Are you saying her Brothers are down for her dating this Guy but not you?
I think she likes knowing you like her... I think it's sh*tty of her to say the things she does to you... Does she like you? Probably a little.. or she at least likes it that you flirt with her... but OMG do you really want a Girl like this in your life? To many mind games IMO.
Originally posted by Merin
I wonder why you think the 2 of you would be together if it wasn't for her Brothers? While I can understand that her Brother is your Best Friend and it might be wierd for him a little if you were to date his Sister... she is dating someone right? So whats up? Are you saying her Brothers are down for her dating this Guy but not you?
I think she likes knowing you like her... I think it's sh*tty of her to say the things she does to you... Does she like you? Probably a little.. or she at least likes it that you flirt with her... but OMG do you really want a Girl like this in your life? To many mind games IMO.
She probably did like you way back when but like you said, you didn't make a move.
He who hesitates, masturbates.
Remember that next time.
Move on. She doesn't like you anymore.
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well hes way overprotective of his sister...i dont know why she started sayin these things..again ive talked to other people and they said theres a reason behind her starting it again...she prob likes you and is sick of her bf...
shes been going out with this other dude for like 4-5 months now...during this time she stopped with the hints and stuff and we never really talked
When she's getting attention from another source, she doesn't need you around. I feel sorry for the poor soul that dated her.
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shes got a b'f she says she loves..so what would make her say that and go back to the things she used to say to me.
She's manipulative, and the current love of her life is herself. She needs an ego supply, and enjoys treating people poorly/ignoring them when they give her what she wants, or she has no further use for them. Would you really want to date a girl who says this crap to other guys? If she treats you shabby now, imagine what she'll be like once she thinks you're in love with her.
She's actually doing you a favor--you'll be a lot happier not getting further enmeshed with a person like this. There are other girls out there worth your time and consideration--definitely not this one. Don't hang out with her, and even though you're shy, try to get out and meet other people.
Last edited by morrigan; 4th May 2005 at 1:53 PM..
u dont know how hard that is i like her alot...ive liked her so long i cant jus drop her off..its weird ...really weird weve done stuff in the past..just never went all the way :\
I'm not trying to be cruel, but I don't think this girl wants to ever date you, or be serious about you. If you want to date her and not only have sexual encounters with her ( and she apparently doesn't want to date you) it's best for you to just wash your hands of her totally.
What she's doing is lousy, but you can't change her behavior--only how you react to it. Hang out with her brother, but don't go out of your way to see this girl or talk to her much. If you do see have to see her, don't flirt back if she flirts with you, or show you are upset or angry at her for anything. As time passes, you'll be less hurt and see how she truly acts a lot more clearly than what you can now.
Get out and start talking to other girls. There are other girls that will not only flirt with you, but will want to date you as well, and wouldn't play silly games like this.
Dude, why don't you believe anything any one is saying?
If you REALLY think you can get this girl, then ask her out and find out for sure. I'm sure it won't work, since she just seems like she is manipulating you. She enjoys teasing you, that's all. And she has a bf.... Hello!
But hey, why don't you prove us all wrong by asking her out.
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u dont know how hard that is i like her alot...ive liked her so long i cant jus drop her off
She is flirting with you. I wouldn't take her seriously if I were you.
Are you one of those guys who want a girl when she's taken? You seem to have had the opportunity to start something for years, but now you're suddenly interested in her as she has someone else. Wait until they break up! Then try something and you'll know exactly how she feels.
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