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Old 2nd May 2005, 3:46 AM   #1
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Help me figure out this girl

Well i made a few posts about this girl i was seeing and how it's been a week or so since i called due to the fact i was depressed.I called her again today she talked for awhile and said she wasn't mad or anything.My question is why wouldn't she be cause she did have every reason to be .Another thing the tone her voice seems she is just not interested despite saying she is so what do i make of this
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Old 2nd May 2005, 9:37 PM   #2
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You take what she says at face value for now.

To tell the truth, why should she be angry? You're not really dating yet. However her tone could say that while she's not mad, but being a little cautious to see what happens next.

I think you should both just take the next steps and see what happens.
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Old 2nd May 2005, 10:27 PM   #3
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You should tell her the reason why you had not called - that you had been feeling depressed.

She might have lost some interest in you due to that, and is not about to wear her feelings on her sleeves, since she has the impression you could leave her hanging at any time since for all she knows, things had been going well between the two of you...
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