[a_girl]

hello everyone. i am having boyfriend problems. i shouldn't be doing this, but i need to know. here it is. my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over than a year. and ever since, it seems like my bf is controlling me, but in a secret way. to sum it up, if feels like i am living with my parents. he tells me to do things a certain way, ( his way) example, folding his clothes his way. i have talked to him many times, it has slowed down a lot. we fight quit a bit, and over stupid stuff. i don't know what else to do. i love him too much to break up with him!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i am trying to work my way around that. any suggestions? please, let me know.

[d'Arthez]

Things don't look too good.

It might be that he has some major issues, and it can be relatively innocent. There is too little information provided, to give a clear perspective on things.

How do you work out a compromise on these things? Or have you given in? Is it always his way? If he has agreed upon a compromise with you, does he live by it? Does he accept your views as an acceptable and healthy alternative to his views, without pushing for conversion to his views?