My mate and I have been together for about 7 years. I think he is somewhat bored with the current sexual ritual we perform. We have previously had issues with his preference for porn, but that is not the issue...just saying I think he'd like my idea. Anyway, I am thinking of installing a "pole" in our bedroom to surprise him with a "private show", not permanent, just a few days. First, for anyone who may know, I need an estimate on the pipe size to use. I've already figured out how to attatch it. Second, looking for ideas regarding costumes. So men, and women does this idea sound like a good idea? This idea is in the making, but I don't think a pole dancing "Barney" would be effective. About all I get to watch is children's cartoons. Give me some help here.

[PFPunks]

Hey! I think thats brilliant. I think, honestly not pervertedly, that he would love that. I'd recommend a faster song that he likes for the first part then a slower one for the second part where you leave the pole and dance on him. Really thats a great idea.

[Dazzle]

Don't go for a homemade version, it needs to be strong enough to bear your weight. If you can afford it, get a removable one: http://www.lilmynx.com/

Here's a cute little book for tips 7 tricks, suggestions for songs that match specefic costumes ect.......
Title: THE Housewifes guide to the Practical Striptease
Author: Miyoko Fujimori (former International Feature Entertainer & playboy tv talk show host)

enjoy!

[Mz. Pixie]

Carmen Electra has a exercise video for exotic dancing. Get one and practice some of the moves she does on there!

[Merin]

I just want to make a comment...

I LMAO when I saw your SN is Prancer.. AND you want to install a pole to get your stip on... LOL struck me as funny....

Prancer the Dancer.. Go on Girl!

Outstanding idea! Your Man had better appreciate it!