is his roommate or actually HIM that is into me... need help reading into this!

udelgirl · 10th April 2005, 11:24 PM

hi! so here's the situation: my ex and i broke up like two years back, it was because i cheated on him. but he and i tried to work things out, but that never panned out... now, i think he's moved on and gotten a new girlfriend, but he still messages me every once in a while.

ok, now about his roommate: i tried this IM tracking thing, it tracks how many times someone with a certain AOL screen name clicks on a link on your profile. meaning it tracks who stalks you basically or is "keeping track of you." so i find out his roomie/good friend is clicking on it obsessively, like basically every day, to look at my photos (the link is to my photos).

now my question is, is it actually his ROOMMATE who is semi-stalking me, and is interested in me, or is it actually him (my ex)? by the way, i used to talk to his roommate and we used to be friends. we still talk now and then. you guys think he's still into me, still trying to like still look at my pics through my roommate? or what?

westernxer · 10th April 2005, 11:54 PM

You should consult a psychic about this, or you could just ask the roommate.

Fuzzy Chickens · 11th April 2005, 12:57 AM

Hire a professional hacker.

LucreziaBorgia · 11th April 2005, 8:41 AM

Email them both and ask. The certainly won't be expecting that. Just say that you know that one of them has been looking at your profile a lot and you are curious as to which one it is and why they are doing it. Better yet, go over there and do it in person. That should make for some interesting conversation.

udelgirl · 11th April 2005, 9:20 AM

hm, i'm trying to avoid asking either of them

any of you guys have a gut intuition about this? just looking for other people's perspectives on this....

thanks

11th April 2005, 10:06 AM

If it was just one guy and you were wondering if he liked you, maybe I can help you. But if it's two guys and you're trying to guess which one it is, forget it.

udelgirl · 17th April 2005, 4:04 PM

just asking for your opinion, if this were happening to you, would you think it's his friend/roommate that was really into you? he's never at any parties i go to, but i see his roommate everywhere! he's like keeping tabs on me, or so it seems, through his roommate-- either that, or his roommate is the one who really likes me! what do you think?

21st April 2005, 3:48 AM

like everyone else on this thread has said. You wont figure it out. who knows.